Parents
1. Under the laws of divine establishment the parents are the authority
in divine institution # 3, i.e. the home.
2. The parents are the most basic
authority in human life and have been since Adam and Eve were the first
parents. As goes your attitudes toward your parents, often so goes your
attitude toward authority.
3. Parents are responsible to train
the children in both the functions and the principles of life. That means the
parents must train both the body and the soul of their children.
4. Therefore parents are not only
responsible for food shelter, clothing, and health of their children but
parents are responsible foe the thinking, the attitudes, the poise, the
manners, the self-discipline of their children.
5. All children must be inculcated
in both the fundamentals of freedom as well as the principles of authority in
life, and how the two have been merged into the divine establishment for
blessing.
6. Children must be trained and
taught to respect the freedom, the privacy, the property and the rights of
others. (Some adults are never thoughtful of others because they were never
taught thoughtfulness in the home)
7. Add to the laws of divine
establishment respect for law and the police officer.
8. In addition, Christian parents have
the responsibility of evangelising their own children through the communication
of the gospel.
9. Once the children are saved by
faith in Christ the parents must provide doctrinal teaching for their children
under the command of Deuteronomy 6:6-9; 7:9.
10. As children become oriented to
the concept of the local church they must be taught to recognise the authority
of the pastor-teacher, and they must be trained to concentrate on his message —
Hebrews 13:7,17.
Principle: As long as they live at home
the child is under the authority of the parents. Basic authority in life and respect for authority comes from the
home. As goes the home, so goes any generation. Each generation determines its
own role in history on the basis of parental discipline and respect for
authority which is taught in the home. Disorientation to life begins when the
child either rejects parental authority or is able to overcome it by
emotionalism, i.e. you must love the child or he will grow up to be some sort
of a misfit. Nothing is more destructive to the individual than to go through
life rejecting authority because of the ingrained habit from childhood.