Rebound
and Keep Moving
WINNING
A BASKETBALL GAME requires players to shoot and to rebound the ball. When the
ball leaves the hand of a shooter, arches gracefully toward the basket, drops
inside the rim of the hoop, and rips through the net, he scores. But when his
shot misses, the ball must be rebounded. Rebounding recovers the loose ball as
it caroms off the rim or backboard. Rebounding restores the opportunity to
shoot, to score, and ultimately, to win. In the spiritual life every Christian
misses shots or sins. But like basketball, the contest of the Christian life
does not end when a believer sins. God graciously provides the way to rebound from sin, to restore the filling of the Holy Spirit,
to recover fellowship with God, and
to keep moving in the spiritual life.
Rebound offers the believer an infinite number of chances to be a winner in the
Christian life.
WHAT ABOUT SIN?
If
every shot in basketball went through the hoop and scored, rebounding would not
be necessary. But no player is perfect. If Christians never sinned the rebound
technique would not be necessary. But no Christian is perfect. We all sin.
If we [believers] say that we have
no sin, we are deceiving ourselves, and the truth is not in us. (1
John 1:8)
If we say that we have not sinned, we make
Him a liar, and His word is not in us. (1 John 1:10)
Sin is disobedience to the will of God, any
mental, verbal, or overt activity contrary to the perfect character and
standards of God. Yet why do believers continue to sin after salvation?
The volition
of Adam is the culprit. God created the first man perfect, without sin. But
Adam’s decision in the Garden to disobey God by eating the forbidden fruit
(Gen. 3:6-8) alienated the entire human race from God (Gen. 3:2-3; cf., Rom.
5:12; 1 Cor. 15:22). The resulting spiritual death of Adam was passed to all
men. Sinful, imperfect mankind can have no relationship with perfect God.
The
omniscience of God knew the free will of Adam would choose to sin. Therefore,
even before God created man, He conceived the plan for renewing our
relationship with Him. He would send His Son, Jesus Christ, to die on the
cross. As our perfect substitute, Jesus paid the penalty for every human sin —
past, present, and future (Rom. 5:8; 2 Cor. 5:14-15, 19; 1 Pet. 2:24; 1 John
2:2). This matchless plan or policy toward mankind is called grace.
WHAT ABOUT GRACE?
God’s
solution for sin is established by His grace. Grace is all that God is free to
do for each of us on the basis of the saving work of Jesus Christ on the cross.
We do not earn or deserve grace; we can do nothing to merit the favor and
blessing of God. He has done everything for us.
GRACE FOR BELIEVER AND UNBELIEVER
Sin
separates the unbeliever from God. Since Jesus Christ resolved the sin problem
on the cross, just one issue confronts the unbeliever: What do you think about
Christ? The issue is resolved by one simple act of faith.
“Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you shall be
saved.” (Acts 16:31b)
For by grace you have been saved
through faith [believing in Christ]; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift
of God; not as a result of works, that no one should boast.
(Eph. 2:8-9)
When
you believe in Jesus Christ, a non-meritorious act, God the Holy Spirit
instantly enters you into a personal and eternal relationship with God the
Father. You are saved by grace. Even though you are still a flawed human being,
you have been declared righteous at the moment of salvation when you are given
the righteousness of God (Rom. 4:3-5; 2 Cor. 5:21). No matter how many sins you
commit in your Christian life, your eternal relationship can never be broken
because the immutable promise of God guarantees your transgressions will not be
remembered.
“I, even I, am the one who wipes out your
transgressions for My own sake; and I will not remember your sins.” (Isa.
43:25)
Immediately
after salvation, logistical grace extends from the justice of God to His
righteousness present in you. In military life, logistics, the supplying of
troops and equipment, play a vital role. But in the Christian life logistics
play an even more dramatic and pivotal role. You are alive today because of
logistical graced God supplies your every need, and as a part of your
logistical grace the rebound technique cleanses your life of personal sins,
freeing you to advance spiritually.
WHY REBOUND?
If
all sins were blotted out at the cross, why is sin still an issue? If all sins
are already forgiven, why must you rebound? The penalty for sin is removed once
and for all at the cross, but repercussions of personal sin in the life of a
believer must be confronted. When a believer sins the initial repercussions are
loss of fellowship with God and loss of the filling of the Holy Spirit, the
empowerment for the Christian life.
No
member of the Trinity can fellowship with a believer having sin in his life.
Sin destroys our temporal fellowship with the Lord, but cannot jeopardize our
eternal relationship with Him. Rebound, confessing or naming our known sins to
God the Father, is the only means compatible with grace for restoration of
fellowship with God and recovery of the filling of the Holy Spirit. Rebound is
our access to intimacy with the Lord, the gateway to divine power in our life,
our license to serve the Lord.
THE REBEL WITHIN
For that which I am doing, I do not
understand; for I am not practicing what I would like to do, but I am doing the
very thing I hate. (Rom. 7:15)
So now, no longer am I the one doing it, but
sin [nature] which indwells me. (Rom. 7:17)
During
our lifetime as Christians we will always be plagued with the sin nature
inherited from Adam. After we sin we may experience feelings of remorse or
guilt; then, we may try to attain forgiveness from God by performing acts of
penance or self- punishment. Why? We feel guilty because we make decisions to
“do the very things we hate.” We punish ourselves to purge the guilt. We
wrongly reason, When I feel forgiven,
then I am forgiven.
Such
human attempts to gain forgiveness can lead only to confusion, a guilt-ridden conscience,
and spiritual impotence. No one can merit forgiveness from God. Understanding
the relationship between the sin nature and sin is necessary to avoid a guilt
complex once we become involved in sin.
When
Adam chose to disobey God he died spiritually and was cursed with a sin nature.
This sin nature, subsequently inherited by every human being, resulted in
spiritual death separation from God in time and eternity and the sovereignty of
the sin nature over human life (Rom. 6:12). The sin nature itself is passed
down genetically through procreation and resides in the cell structure of the
human body (Rom. 6:6; 7:14, 18).
Invisibly
lurking in our genetic makeup, the sin nature continually tempts the soul to
rebel against God. But the sin nature cannot make us sin. Temptation is not
sin. The sin nature is only the source of temptation’, our volition is the
source of personal sin. Only when we choose to succumb to this inner tempter do
we sin. Our choice makes us responsible for all our sins.
With
the exception of Jesus Christ, every person born into the human race possesses
a sin nature (1 Pet. 2:22; cf., Rom. 3:23). Salvation does not eradicate this
inherent corrupter of mankind, but does give us access to the only way to
resolve the repercussions of sin in our lives. No believer will ever be sinless
or perfect in this life.
The
apostle John concisely states the sin problem. The believer who denies he sins
personally is guilty of self-deception, guilty of ignorance of divine truth, or
guilty of calling God a liar which is blasphemy (1 John 1:8, 10). During his
lifetime the believer continually struggles with sin. But God has not left us
defenseless against the incessant onslaught of the temptation of the sin nature
and our propensity to sin.
UNDERSTANDING THE SIN NATURE
To
recognize the sin in our lives we must understand how the sin nature seeks to
influence and gain control of our souls. The sin nature is composed of an area
of weakness, an area of strength, trends toward legalism and antinomianism, and
lust patterns. Within the sin nature the area of weakness is the source of
temptation for personal sin; the area of strength is the source of human good.
THE
AREA OF WEAKNESS tempts to commit personal sins in three categories. The first
is mental attitude sins, including pride, envy, jealousy, bitterness, hatred,
vindictiveness, implacability, guilt feelings, fear, worry, anxiety, self-pity
(Prov. 8:13; Isa. 41:10; Phil. 4:6; 1 John 2:11). Mental attitude sins are the
most destructive to the spiritual life. They can quickly initiate a cluster of
sins which develop into “chain-sinning.”
Sins of the tongue form the second
category of personal sins. These sins develop from mental attitude sins and
include maligning, judging, bullying, gossiping, criticizing, lying. James
warns us about the devastation wrought by this category of sin.
So also the tongue is a small part
of the body, and yet it boasts of great things. Behold, how great a forest is
set aflame by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, the very world of
iniquity; the tongue is set among our members as that which defiles the entire
body, and sets on fire the course of our life, and is set on fire by hell.
(James 3:5-6)
The
third category of personal sin is overt sin. Some overt sins declared in the
Bible are murder, adultery, drunkenness, drug abuse, stealing.
Now the deeds of the flesh are
evident, which are: immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery,
enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions,
factions, envying, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these.
(Gal. 5:19-21a)
Misinformed people insist certain taboos are also
overt sins. A taboo is a prohibition arbitrarily imposed by a religious or social
group. But taboos are not the basis for assessing sin. While some may not
condone certain taboos, the Bible does not condemn them as sin. Believers must
stay with what the Bible teaches.
THE
AREA OF STRENGTH becomes operational only after the believer chooses to sin and
comes under the control of the sin nature. From the area of strength the sin
nature produces deeds of human good or “dead works” (Heb. 6:1). These good
deeds can be performed by believers or unbelievers. The results may be the same
in human terms. Human good, including philanthropy, charity, and altruism, can
be beneficial to mankind. But for the believer, unless the motivation is from
the filling of the Holy Spirit, there is no spiritual value to deeds of human
good. Scripture distinguishes between good works with spiritual and eternal
value and good works with only temporal value.
Now if any man [believer] builds
upon the foundation [Jesus Christ] with gold, silver, precious stones [divine
good], wood, hay, straw [human good], each man’s work will become evident; for
the day will show it [the judgment seat of Christ], because it is to be
revealed with fire; and the fire itself will test the quality of each man’s
work. If any man’s work [divine good] which he has built upon it remains, he
shall receive a reward. If any man’s work [human good] is burned up, he shall
suffer loss [of rewards, not eternal salvation]; but he himself shall be saved
[delivered to heaven], yet so as through fire. (1
Cor. 3:12-15)
In
our limited perspective all good works may appear the same. But God
differentiates those done by the power of the sin nature from those done by His
power. Deeds of human good — wood, hay, and straw — have no spiritual value,
are not rewardable in heaven, and do not glorify God. These good deeds are
unacceptable to God.
All our righteous deeds [human good] are
like a filthy garment. (Isa. 64:6b)
Good
deeds do frequently fall short of their intended results and sometimes
contribute to evil. The sinful nature of humanity corrupts good intentions.
Acts of human good are never permanent solutions for our problems. In this
imperfect world only acts of divine good, produced in the power of God the Holy
Spirit, provide permanent solutions and affect spiritual momentum.
THE
SIN NATURE HAS TWO TRENDS. One is toward legalism — a futile attempt to earn
salvation, spirituality, or the approbation of God through morality or good
works. The other trend is toward antinomianism — self-gratification leading to
licentiousness. We all have a trend in one direction or the other. When we are
under the control of the sin nature we generally move in the direction of our
habitual trend. Less frequently we move in the opposite direction. For example,
one person may develop an area of legalism, though his general trend might be
toward lasciviousness. On the other hand, a person who trends toward
self-righteousness might suddenly develop an area of licentiousness.
THE
LUST PATTERN is another characteristic of the sin nature. Lust is an illicit or
perhaps insatiable desire, the motivation toward either trend. Lusts include
approbation lust (the desire for recognition or approval), power lust, sexual
lust. social lust, monetary lust,
materialism lust, inordinate ambition resulting in inordinate competition,
revenge lust, criminal lust, chemical lust, crusader lust, pleasure lust.
Satisfying the desires of lust does not bring the lasting happiness which is
bestowed only by God. When we are controlled by the lust pattern of the sin
nature, we become slaves to our desires (Rom. 7:14), divorced from reality.
Never
judge a person because their weaknesses arc not your weaknesses (Matt. 7:1-5).
Even mature Christians can be desperately sinful at times. You may be strong
where they are weak. An indispensable principle for relationships with other
believers is to allow them to live their own life as unto the Lord. Everyone
must handle their own sins in privacy before the Lord.
THE STANDARD OF GOD IS ABSOLUTE
ETERNAL RELATIONSHIP — THE TOP CIRCLE
Once
we believe in Jesus Christ, salvation can never be forfeited. Our eternal
security is based on the payment by Christ for every sin committed before and
after salvation. This complete payment guarantees our eternal destiny in
heaven. Nothing in this universe — in heaven above, on the earth, or under the
earth can separate us from God. Once we have believed in Jesus Christ, we
cannot lose our salvation.
For I am convinced that neither
death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things
to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall
be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
(Rom. 8:38-39)
The
moment we believe, the Holy Spirit places us into union with Christ, the
irrevocable
state of eternal relationship. The Scripture
designates this union with Christ by the phrase “in Christ.”
For as in Adam all die, so also in Christ
all shall be made alive. (1 Cor. 15:22).
Because
God did everything to secure this union, we can do nothing to abrogate our
position in Christ. We cannot be removed from the ‘top circle’ of eternal
relationship.
“And I give eternal life to them,
and they shall never perish; and no one shall snatch them out of my hand.”
(John 10:28)
We are
held by the hand of God who never lets go. We are not held by our own morality,
obedience, good works, or religious observances. Our salvation never depends on
us. Salvation is by grace, freely given by God, never earned or deserved.
For by grace you have been saved
through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a
result of works, that no one should boast. (Eph. 2:8-9)
Since
we can do nothing to earn our salvation, we can do nothing to lose our
salvation. Just as salvation is given by the grace of God, our eternal life is
also preserved by His grace. God always preserves what He has given.
To obtain an inheritance which is
imperishable and undefiled and will not fade away, reserved in heaven for you,
who are protected by the power of God. (1 Pet. 1:4-5a)
No
believer can be plucked from the omnipotent hand of the Lord Jesus Christ, even
if he dies with unconfessed sin in his life.
TEMPORAL FELLOWSHIP — THE BOTTOM CIRCLE
When
we believe in Jesus Christ as Savior, we enter not only the top circle, an
eternal relationship with God, but we also enter the bottom circle, fellowship
with God in time. Fellowship with God provides the means to live the Christian
life and grow spiritually. Unlike the top circle, the believer by his own
volition can remove himself from the bottom circle.
Inside
the bottom circle represents spirituality; outside represents carnality.
Spirituality is the absolute status of being in fellow- ship with God, under
the control of the Holy Spirit. Carnality is the absolute status of being out
of fellowship, under the control of the sin nature. We cannot be partially
spiritual and partially carnal. They are mutually exclusive.
Every
time we decide to sin we move out of the bottom circle losing temporal
fellowship. We become carnal when we sin; we become spiritual when we rebound.
By acknowledging Jour sins to God the Father we return to the bottom circle. As
in basketball we recover the ability to score and to win by rebounding. In the
spiritual life we return to the bottom circle of temporal fellowship by
rebounding.
DOES CARNALITY SHOCK YOU?
First
Corinthians 3:1-3 confirms the existence of carnality among believers.
Remember, the most wonderful people in the world are Christians, but some Christians
can be despicable. How can this be? Carnality is the problem.
When
a Christian consistently remains under the control of the Holy Spirit, growing
to spiritual maturity, he exhibits the fruit of the Spirit.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love,
joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness,
self-control; against such things there is no law.
(Gal. 5:22-23)
However,
the Christian who habitually remains under the control of the sin nature, in carnality,
commits destructive mental, verbal, and overt sins. If you do not acknowledge
the existence of carnality among Christians, you will never understand the
necessity for confession of sin. You will resemble the Corinthian believers who
were unable to make spiritual progress.
And I, brethren, could not speak to you as to spiritual men
[filled with the Spirit], but as to men of flesh [carnal]; as to babes [nepios]
in Christ. (1 Cor. 3:1)
These
Corinthians are believers. “Brethren” refers to anyone who accepts Jesus Christ
as Savior and is born into the family of God (John 1:12). Although Paul
reprimands them for their carnality, he declares their position “in Christ.”
Since
these believers are not spiritual, Paul is unable to speak to or teach them. If
they had been filled with the Spirit they would have been able to learn and
grow from the doctrine Paul taught. Unfortunately, they are not spiritual and
consequently could not advance beyond the very basic doctrine they have
learned. They are “men of flesh,” carnal Christians out of fellowship with God
with a stagnant spiritual life. Though these Corinthians are saved they are
carnal and wreaking havoc in the church.
If
you have ever observed a carnal believer and asked, How can he be a Christian?
you have based your judgment on superficial appearances.
“For God sees not as man sees, for
man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” (1
Sam. 16:7b)
Overt
behavior is not the issue in salvation. The only issue in salvation is faith
alone in Christ alone (Eph. 2:8-9). As you mature, however, you will discover
the Bible does make a distinction between carnality and spirituality.
Paul
virtually insults the Corinthians by calling them “babes.” The Greek noun nepios does not refer here to a newborn,
but is used pejoratively as a sign of contempt for the ignorant or untrained
believer. Paul reminds them they are ignorant of the Christian life because
their growth is stunted by carnality.
Rebound
is the first doctrine a new believer must learn to progress spiritually.
Shortly after salvation a new believer will sin and lose fellowship with God.
Unless the filling of the Holy Spirit is recovered he will not advance in the
Christian life. Doctrine cannot be learned or applied in his life. Such was the
situation in Corinth.
I
gave you milk [basic doctrine] to drink, not solid food [advanced doctrine];
for you were not yet able to receive it. Indeed, even now you are not yet able.
(1 Cor. 3:2)
Like
Paul the responsibility of the pastor-teacher is to provide spiritual
nourishment. But Paul could only give them “milk,” basic doctrine, instead of
the solid food of advanced doctrine. Carnality impaired their ability to learn
and apply even the most basic truths of the Word of God.
IS YOUR LIST COMPLETE?
For you are still fleshly [carnal]. For since
there is jealousy and strife among you, are you not fleshly and are you not
walking like mere men [imitating unbelievers]? (1 Cor. 3:3)
Some
Christians conveniently focus on a few overt sins and ignore myriads of mental
and verbal sins. Their list of sins is superficial and incomplete. Any sin
expels the believer from the bottom circle. Sin is sin and all sin results in
carnality.
The
carnality of the Corinthian believers began with the mental attitude sin of
jealousy. Vicious, rampant jealousy among these believers spawned the sin of
“strife.” This strife was inordinate competition and ambition motivated by
unconfessed jealousy.
For
example, one person may aspire to approval and recognition in a local church.
When he hears praise for others, mental attitude sins of envy and
competitiveness are aroused. To satisfy his desire for approbation he must
divert attention to himself. With a malicious innuendo he maligns the character
of his rival. The rival reacts. The situation deteriorates as the two fall into
sins of the tongue, maligning and gossiping about each other. Unless quelled
through rebound and spiritual growth, strife becomes divisive in the church.
“Walking
like mere men” refers to the motivation of unbelievers. Carnal believers are
indistinguishable from unbelievers because both are controlled by the sin
nature. Carnal Christians continue to degenerate because they fail to rebound.
Believers are capable of committing any sin and can even remain in carnality
for an indefinite period.
However,
there is no excuse for any Christian to remain in a state of carnality. This is
why we must understand rebound before we can maintain spirituality. No one can
be spiritual unless they rebound.
You
may be a miserable and contemptible sinner. But you can recover because of
God’s gracious provision of rebound. God forgives even the most extraordinarily
wicked sinner. If you commit a heinous sin that shocks you, remember this: If you
are still alive, God still has a purpose for your life!
GOD’S LIST OF SINS
There
are six things which the Lord hates, yes, seven which are an abomination to
Him. (Prov. 6:16)
God detests
every sin, but seven are of particular magnitude. Are you ready for a surprise?
Five of these seven sins are not overt! Of the seven sins named on God’s list,
two are mental attitude, three are verbal, and only two are overt. Remember
these verses when you are tempted to ignore mental and verbal sins and focus on
only overt sins.
Haughty eyes, a lying tongue, and hands that
shed innocent blood. (Prov. 6:17)
“Haughty
eyes” represent mental attitude arrogance, a presumption of superiority, self-absorption,
self-centeredness, and inordinate pride. Arrogance is the root sin that leads
to other sins. Christians who think of themselves as supremely spiritual are
arrogant. They define their own moral standards and believe they Jive up to
them. Because they avoid certain overt sins they become convinced they are
spiritually superior. They are not. Arrogance destroys fellowship with God,
damages the soul, and alienates people.
The
next sin, “a lying tongue” is an arrogant attempt to reshape the truth to
escape responsibility or distort reality by deceiving others. Like all sins of
the tongue, lying is motivated by mental attitude sins such as arrogance,
worry, or fear.
“Hands
that shed innocent blood” is murder. Christians can and do commit homicide. The
murderer weaves his way through a path of mental attitude sins, including
anger, jealousy, hatred, bitterness, revenge culminating in murder. A heart
that devises wicked plans, feet that run rapidly
Do
you plot ways to retaliate against people who have hurt you? “A heart that
devises wicked plans” is the mental attitude sin of revenge. “Feet that run
rapidly to evil” describes those who follow the lusts of their sin nature into
all manner of evil. These carnal believers lack self-restraint or self-discipline,
reveling in treachery, deceit, and wrongdoing.
A
false witness who utters lies, and one who spreads strife among brothers.
(Prov. 6:19) “A false witness who utters lies” deliberately perjures himself,
in contrast to the person with a lying tongue. The false witness with malicious
intent engages in slander and defamation under oath.
Finally,
“one who spreads strife among brothers” reminds us of the divisions in Corinth,
a situation common to many local churches today. One group vies for power over
another group by resorting to innuendo, gossip, and lies to damage the
reputations of their rivals.
These
verses should dispel our shallow view of sin. Tragically we restrict our
understanding of sin to a few blatant overt sins or taboos. No such restriction
exists with God. Some of the worst repercussions accompany mental attitude and
verbal sins. To avoid carnality, chain-sinning, and divine discipline we must
learn God’s provision for recovering the filling of the Holy Spirit.
TWO DISTINCT MINISTRIES OF THE HOLY SPIRIT
At the moment of salvation every believer is
both indwelt and filled with the Holy Spirit. These two ministries are not
identical and should never be confused. The indwelling of the Holy Spirit Is a permanent relationship, regardless of
our carnality or spirituality. The filling of the Holy Spirit is temporary fellowship determined by our
carnality or spirituality.
Do you not know that you are a
temple of God, and that the Spirit of God indwells [oikeo] you? (1
Cor. 3:16)
In the
indicative mood the Greek verb oikeo,
to indwell, is a declaration of fact, the certainty of the status of
indwelling. The Holy Spirit indwells the body of every believer to make a
temple for the indwelling of Jesus Christ (1 Cor. 6:19). This indwelling of the
Holy Spirit can never be lost. The indwelling is permanent — dependent upon
God’s faithfulness; the filling is temporary — dependent upon our volition.
And
do not get drunk with wine, for that is dissipation, but be filled [pleroo] with the Spirit. (Eph. 5:18)
In
the imperative mood the Greek verb pleroo
designates a divine mandate, a command that involves our choice. God would not
mandate a status we already possess. We must choose to be or not to be filled
with the Spirit.
Pleroo means “to fill up a deficiency,
to fully influence, to fill with a certain quality.” No believer has the
ability to obey God’s mandates through human power. The Holy Spirit fills up
this deficiency by giving us the power to live the Christian way of life. But
why, if we are filled with the Spirit at salvation, is this command necessary?
The
reason is our old nemesis, the sin nature. The filling of the Spirit is lost
when we sin. In carnality we are no longer controlled by the Holy Spirit, but by
the sin nature. How can we escape this control?
REBOUND!
Rebound
is for believers only. If you have not accepted Jesus Christ as Savior,
confession is utterly useless. Judas Iscariot confessed his sins, felt sorry
for his sins, and even made restitution (Matt. 27:3-4). He did everything
except believe in Christ. His confession was futile. He was lost and died an
unbeliever.
As a
believer you have no excuse for permitting sin to destroy your spiritual life.
Rebound and keep moving!
If we
confess [homologeo — name] our sins,
He is faithful and righteous to forgive us [cancel] our sins and to cleanse
[purify] us from all unrighteousness. (1 John 1:9) The word “if’ translates a
third-class conditional clause in the Greek. Fulfillment of this condition
depends on your volition: Maybe you will rebound and maybe you will not. Each
of us must decide to exercise that option.
The
Greek word homologeo, translated
confess, means “to name, cite, admit, acknowledge, confess a crime in court, to
make a legal statement.” The verb was used primarily in a judicial context.
First John 1:9 is no exception. The word means simply to acknowledge or name
your sins to God. Homologeo does not
mean to feel sorry for sins, to publicly renounce sins, or to suffer a guilty conscience;
there is no emotional connotation involved.
Before
the Supreme Court of Heaven, how you feel about your sins is of no consequence.
No human works or emotion can be added to Christ’s complete payment for sin on
the cross. Though genuine feelings of remorse may accompany confession they
have no bearing on God’s forgiveness. You need only name your sins to God.
Confession that compels self-reproach or penance is blasphemy and rejects the
grace of God. Never insult God by adding an emotional plea for forgiveness.
First John 1:9 does not say, If we ask or beg for forgiveness. Just acknowledge
your sins.
CONFESS TO GOD ALONE
There
is no biblical requirement for ritual cleansing or repetitive liturgical
phrases to be made to a priest, a pastor, or any other member of the clergy. At
the moment of salvation you become a royal priest with the privilege of
representing yourself directly to God both in prayer and confession (1 Pet.
2:5, 9). In confession your sins are your concern and not the business of anyone
else and should be named privately to God the Father. He alone can forgive
them.
Open
declarations of sin, besides being superfluous to rebound, may induce mental
attitude sins in others. Such harmful results occur in cases where public
admission of wrongdoing reopens the wound of an injured party, embroils
previously uninvolved parties, or reveals a sin particularly heinous and
shocking to others.
David,
King of Israel, committed monstrous sins with prolonged and devastating
consequences. Though many people suffered, he confessed to God alone, “Against
Thee, Thee only, I have sinned” (Ps. 51:4a).
Apologizing
to someone whom you have hurt is always appropriate and should be motivated by
a genuine desire to restore harmony to the relationship, not to ease guilt
feelings. When you apologize, do so privately after you have recovered fellowship with God through rebound.
FORGIVENESS BY GRACE ALONE
Divine
forgiveness depends solely on God’s perfect character: “He is faithful and
righteous.” “Faithful” emphasizes God’s consistency in forgiving every believer
who admits his sins to Him. God cannot default on His promise. His grace never
fails. He never wearies of our repetitious rebounding. He never says, this time
you do not deserve it. We never deserve forgiveness, but He always forgives!
“Righteous”
describes the source of forgiveness. God’s holiness or integrity is composed of
righteousness and justice. His perfect righteousness is the only standard His
justice can accept. The righteousness and justice of God cannot be compromised.
He cannot accept our penance, guilt feelings, emotional reactions, or other
human works. Only the saving work of God the Son on the cross can satisfy or
propitiate the integrity of God the Father
The
next two verbs, “to forgive” and “to cleanse,” describe the results of rebound.
The Greek verb (aphiemi) means “to forgive, to cancel.” The instant we
acknowledge our known sins to God He cancels the sins and the initial
repercussion of loss of fellowship. If any repercussions related to divine
discipline remain, they are transformed from suffering for discipline to
suffering for blessing. Now filled with the Spirit, the believer can apply
Bible doctrine to his suffering and advance toward spiritual maturity.
What
about sins we commit which we have forgotten or do not know are wrong? He
cleanses “us from all unrighteousness.” The Greek verb (katharizo) means “to
cleanse, to remove for the purpose of purifying, hence, to purify” and applies
to all sins. Known sins are usually accompanied by unknown sins. When we
acknowledge the known sins to God, He forgives and purifies us from all
unrighteousness, including unknown and forgotten sins.
THE PRODIGAL SON
Jesus
illustrates the extraordinary forgiveness of God in the parable of the prodigal
son (Luke 15.11-32). The narrative revolves around the actions of three
characters: the father, the elder brother, and the younger son. The younger son
represents the believer who continually sins and wallows in carnality. His sins
remove him from fellowship with his father, who represents God the Father.
Taking
his share of his inheritance, the prodigal leaves home and departs to a far
country. His, continued debauchery and extravagance wreck his life — the
consequences of carnality. He becomes a beggar, living among pigs. Having come
to the end of his own resources he realizes how wretched he has become and
determines to return to his father.
“I will get up and go to my father,
and will say to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in your sight.’
(Luke 15:18)
This
is the younger son’s prayer of rebound, but his next statement reveals his
confusion about forgiveness.
‘l am no longer worthy to be called your
son; make me as one of your hired men’ “ (Luke 15:19)
Because
of his irresponsible degeneracy, the prodigal convinces himself his father no
longer loves him or regards him as a son. He thought his father would be more
inclined to forgive him if he offered penance for his sins through
self-sacrifice or guilt. He was wrong. Forgiveness was based on his father’s
character. Christians often make this same error about God’s forgiveness.
When
the son returned home he was astonished by the love, compassion, and
forgiveness of his father.
“And he got up and came to his
father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him, and felt
compassion for him, and ran and embraced him, and kissed him.”
(Luke 15:20)
This
verse vividly portrays how the essence of God acts to forgive us. The
omniscience of God knew every-sin we would ever commit. He also anticipates
every confession. The righteousness and justice of God insure our forgiveness
through Christ’s payment for those sins. The love of God is free to flow to us
because of that payment. His love guarantees compassion for us when we rebound.
When
we name our sins to God it is as though the Father runs to us, throws His arms
around us, and welcomes us back with a kiss. Our forgiven sins no longer affect
our fellowship with God. That is the grace of God!
Often
those with legalistic tendencies become upset because they think rebound is a
license to sin. Some believers who fail may use rebound for exactly that
purpose. But rebound restores the believer to a position where he can live his
spiritual life and serve God, not excuse or rationalize sin. No believer can be
in God’s plan apart from the divine power which comes only through the filling
of the Holy Spirit. Rebound is the only way to recover from sin and regain the
filling of the Holy Spirit.
AFTER CONFESSION, WHAT?
Having
named your sins to God, three other
steps must follow: Isolate your sins,
forget your sins, and keep moving.’ These steps prevent
continued carnality through chain-sinning.
See to it that no one comes short of
the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and
by it many be defiled. (Heb. 12:15)
ISOLATE
YOUR SINS, A root is the base or foundation of a plant that absorbs nutrients
from the soil to supply nourishment to the plant. When your soul is rooted in
“bitterness,” a devastating chain of sins — mental, verbal, and overt — springs
up. Bitterness ripens into anger, hatred, or vindictiveness, the natural
foundation for gossip, maligning, violence, or even murder. However, the memory
of a past grievance or a forgiven sin must not be allowed to generate further
sins. Past sins must be isolated from the present to break this chain reaction.
Brethren,
I do not regard myself as having laid hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching
forward [moving on] to what lies ahead. (Phil. 3:13)
FORGET
YOUR SINS AND KEEP MOVING. Before his salvation on the Damascus road the
Apostle Paul was infamous for his self- righteous crusade to exterminate
Christians (Phil. 3:6). Although God had forgiven these heinous sins, the
guilty memory could have crippled Paul’s spiritual life, but he isolated and
forgot past sins and focused on the present goal of spiritual maturity.
Once
sin is confessed you must forget as God has forgotten (Ps. 103:12; Isa. 43:25).
Someone may have offended you. You reacted with bitterness and anger which you
then confessed. God forgave and forgot that sin. But your failure to forget the
sin can lead to smoldering hatred and a thirst for revenge. These mental sins
may quickly ignite into verbal and overt sins unless you rebound, isolate the
sin, and put the sin in the past where it belongs. Only then are you free to
keep moving toward maturity in the Christian life.
I press
on [keep moving] toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in
Christ Jesus. (Phil. 3:14)
SELF-JUDGMENT OR DIVINE DISCIPLINE
Whenever
we sin we are liable for discipline.
“For those whom the Lord loves He
disciplines, and He scourges every son whom He receives.” (Heb.
12:6)
Our
choice is between self-judgment and divine discipline. Neglecting rebound
plunges the believer into divine discipline. The apostle Paul specifically
warns the Corinthians of this principle in a passage about the communion table
(1 Cor. 11:28- 32). Before partaking of the communion elements, a believer
should “examine” or “judge” himself, synonyms for rebound.
But let a man examine himself [rebound],
and so let him eat of the bread and drink of the cup. (1
Cor. 11:28)
Every
believer has the right to partake of the communion elements, but each believer
is warned never to eat or drink with unconfessed sin in the life.
For he who eats and drinks, eats and drinks
judgment to himself [divine discipline], if he does not judge the body rightly.
(1 Cor. 11:29)
For this reason many among you are
weak [warning discipline] and sick [intensive discipline], and a number sleep
[dying discipline]. (1 Cor. 11:30)
But if we judged ourselves rightly
[rebound], we should not be judged [divine discipline]. (1 Cor. 11:31) But when
we are judged, we are disciplined by the Lord in order that we may not be
condemned along with the world. (1 Cor. 11:32)
The “if”
in verse 31, a second class condition, indicates the Corinthian believers
should have been judging themselves, but were not. The resulting divine
discipline devastated the congregation. Three categories of discipline caused
by spiritual maladies afflicted the carnal Corinthians (1 Cor. 11:30):
1.
“Weak” — illnesses which are basically not organic in nature. These may include
loss of energy and strength, motivation, even depression. This is warning discipline to encourage the
believer to rebound.
2. “Sick”
— includes definite organic (physical) illnesses, even to the point of becoming
an invalid. This intensive discipline
is designed to shock the rebellious believer out of carnality. 3. “Sleep” — the Greek
word (koimao), used figuratively for the physical death of believers only (1
Thess. 4:14). If a believer stubbornly remains carnal the Lord may prematurely
terminate his life through dying discipline or the “sin unto death” (1 John
5:16a [KJV]).
The
alternative to God’s judgment is self-judgment. After rebound and restoration
to fellowship, God exercises one of three options on our behalf. First, He may
remove all disciplinary suffering (1 Cor. 11:31). Second, disciplinary
suffering may be diminished and transformed into blessing. Third, disciplinary
suffering may continue at the same intensity, but is designed for greater
blessing.
The
longer a believer remains out of fellowship, the more intense the discipline
becomes. Prolonged carnality may result in discipline so severe that some
become convinced they were never saved. This believer becomes useless in
relation to God’s plan for his life. The only solution is to exploit the grace
of God through 1 John 1:9 and keep moving.
REBOUND FOR SPIRITUAL ADVANCE
What can
be expected when a believer lives without using rebound for an extended period
of time? The prodigal son! Jus like the prodigal son in the New Testament, the
pattern of sin discipline, rebound, restoration, and blessing can be observed
ii the lives of Old Testament believers.
Therefore, since we have so great a
cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance, and
the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race
that is set before us. (Heb. 12:1)
The
great “cloud of witnesses” are the outstanding spiritual heroes of the Old
Testament, the hall of fame list of Hebrews, chapter 11. They were not perfect;
they were not ‘holier than thou’; they were not sinless. When they failed they
used God’s grace in rebound. We, too, must “lay aside every encumbrance, and
the sin which so easily entangles us.” The Old Testament heroes exemplify for
us the necessity of rebound in order to advance spiritually.
DAVID: FAILURE AND RECOVERY
DAVID, THE SPIRITUAL GIANT
A
vivid Old Testament illustration of sin, discipline, rebound, restoration, and
blessing occurs in 2 Samuel 11. The hero is David, the King of Israel, one of
the most highly respected believers in history. The Scripture lauds him as a
man “after the Lord’s own heart” (1 Sam. 13:14; Acts 13:22). Yet, like every
other believer, David miserably failed the Lord. The episode begins with David
in fellowship. This quickly changes. The results are tragic.
Then
it happened in the spring, at the time when kings go out to battle, that David
sent Joab and his servants with him and all Israel, and they destroyed the sons
of Ammon and besieged Rabbah. But David stayed at Jerusalem. (2 Sam. 11:1)
In
the ancient Near East armies traditionally stood down in the fall and winter,
then reassembled to conduct their campaigns in the good weather of spring and
summer. The previous year Israel had defeated the Ammonites, but by summer’s
end failed to capture Rabbah, the Ammonite capital. With the arrival of spring
the army of Israel mobilized and deployed to renew the siege of Rabbah.
DAVID, THE CARNAL GIANT
As
monarch, David was responsible for leading his troops in the field. The Holy
Spirit carefully makes this point: “At
the time when kings go out to battle.” God’s will was for David to lead his
troops at Rabbah. Instead, David sent Joab, his Chief of Staff, and his
servants.
David
had previously led every military campaign, but now he “stayed at Jerusalem,”
Failure to fulfill his responsibilities put David out of God’s geographical
will and in carnality. David was now a spiritually mature believer out of
fellowship.
By
being in the wrong place David encountered temptation where he was most
vulnerable. David had many impressive strengths: He exhibited phenomenal courage in combat with Goliath, brilliant
leadership of the nation, and true humility toward God. But his strengths were
neutralized by carnality. His weakness for women became his downfall.
Now when evening came David arose from his bed and walked around
on the roof of the king’s house, and from the roof he saw a woman bathing; and
the woman was very beautiful in appearance. (2 Sam. 11:2)
David
had little to do around Jerusalem, since his responsibility was to be with his
army at Rabbah. Apparently he was sleeping most of the day. When he awoke in
the evening he was bored. So he took a walk in the palace garden. In the
ancient world, gardens were not on the ground level, but on the roof. During
the course of David’s stroll, he saw an extremely beautiful woman bathing.
Suddenly David was no longer bored. He found this view more exciting than his
garden.
If
David had been in fellowship when he saw this gorgeous woman, he may have
resisted the temptation. After all, he had three wives and at least ten
concubines. Seeing such a breathtaking woman was not an unusual event in his
life.
But
David was out of fellowship. Any believer out of fellowship finds temptation
overwhelming, especially in areas where he is weak.
If
your weakness is jealousy, bitterness, envy, gossiping or maligning others, it
will be more difficult to resist the temptation to sin in these areas. This
lovely woman appealed to David’s weakness. Being tempted in your area of
weakness when you are in fellowship is one thing; being tempted in your area of
weakness when you are out of fellowship may be something else entirely.
So David sent and inquired about the
woman. And one said, “is this not Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of
Uriah the Hittite?” (2 Sam. 11:3)
David
ordered his aides to find out the identity of this woman. They discovered she
was the wife of one of David’s commanders. Uriah, unlike David, was where he
should be — at Rabbah with the army of Israel.
And David sent messengers and took
her, and when she came to him, he lay with her; and when she had purified
herself from her uncleanness, she returned to her house. And the woman
conceived; and she sent and told David, and said, “I am pregnant.” (2
Sam. 11:4-5)
David found a way to cure his boredom — adultery. If David had been a Christian today, some of his friends might have said, David was never really a Christian. They would be wrong. David was saved and is in heaven today. He was another believer who willingly walked into the trap of carnality. His mental attitude sins turned o
DAVID’S SCHEMES
Then David sent to Joab, saying, “Send me Uriah the Hittite.” So Joab sent Uriah to David. When Uriah came to him, David asked concerning the welfare of Joab and the people and the state of the war. (2 Sam. 11:6-7)
When he questioned Uriah, David feigned concern for the battlefield situation. David was not at all interested in the siege of Rabbah. Instead, he schemed to conceal his seduction of Bathsheba. David concocted a clever ploy to lure Uriah home to be with his wife because he hoped to escape blame for her pregnancy. David’s appearance of virtue when he inquired about the army was nothing more than hypocrisy and subterfuge.
Hypocrisy is a common characteristic of carnality. A believer out of fellowship often attempts to conceal or deny his sin. With each progressive sin David was transformed from a spiritual giant into a carnal hypocrite.
Then David said to Uriah, “Go down to your house, and wash your feet.” And Uriah went out of the king’s house, and a present from the king was sent out after him. (2 Sam. 11:8)
“Wash your feet” is a Hebrew idiom for “enter the house.” In the time of David, the streets of Jerusalem were so dusty that every household had a footbath at the door. Before entering his house, a man would remove his sandals and wash his feet. When a guest knocked on the door, instead of saying, come in, the response was, wash your feet.
But Uriah slept at the door of the king’s house with all the servants of his lord, and did not go down to his house. (2 Sam. 11:9)
Uriah
failed to comply with David’s wishes, frustrating his plan. Instead he “slept
at the door of the king’s house.” The door of the king’s house refers not to
David’s palace, but to the guardhouse near the king’s gate. Located there were
special barracks to
billet the royal guards. Rather than going home to spend the night with his
wife, Uriah moved into the barracks of the guard- house with the palace guard.
Uriah was a responsible soldier who would not enjoy the pleasures of home while
the army was in the field.
Now when they told David, saying,
“Uriah did not go down to his house,” David said to Uriah, “Have you not come
from a journey? Why did you not go down to your house?” And Uriah said to
David, “The ark and Israel and Judah are staying in temporary shelters, and my
lord Joab and the servants of my lord are camping in the open field. Shall I
then go to my house to eat and to drink and to lie with my wife? By your life
and the life of your soul, I will not do this thing.” (2 Sam. 11:10-11)
David must have winced as he heard
this reply. All his life David had displayed a tremendous sense of
responsibility, so Uriah’s loyalty and concern for his troops should have
awakened David’s conscience. While the entire general staff was enduring
hardships in the field, David was enjoying the pleasures in the palace. If
David had been in fellowship he and Uriah would have left for Rabbah at once.
But what did he do? David made another attempt to entice Uriah home.
Then David said to Uriah, “Stay here
today also, and tomorrow I will let you go.” So Uriah remained in Jerusalem
that day and the next. Now David called him, and he ate and drank before him,
and he made him drunk; and in the evening he went out to lie on his bed with
his lord’s servants, but he did not go down to his house. (2 Sam. 11:12-13)
David made Uriah drunk. 17 David
hopes that once Uriah’s inhibitions break down, he will go to his wife’s bed. David
exhibited all the manipulative skills characteristic of the carnal
hypocrite, frantic to escape the consequences of his
own bad decisions. David’s cruel cunning reached a new low. Some of the most
conniving people are believers out of fellowship. Did his manipulations
succeed? Under David’s insistence Uriah did get drunk, but in spite of the
temptation, Uriah maintained his military standards of integrity.
Now it came about in the morning
that David wrote a letter to Joab, and sent it by the hand of Uriah. (2
Sam. 11:14)
David
was desperate. The only solution to his dilemma seemed to be the death of
Uriah. To accomplish his wicked deed David wrote a letter to Joab. Not only
would David be guilty of murder, but he would make Joab an accessory. David
knew an officer of Uriah’s integrity would never examine a letter he carried.
And he had written in the letter, saying,
‘Place Uriah in the front line of the fiercest battle and withdraw from him, so
that he may be struck down and die.” (2 Sam. 11:15)
Joab
understood the wishes of his commander-in-chief. The order was clear: Advance
on Rabbah with Uriah leading, then retreat, leaving Uriah isolated and
unprotected from the enemy.
So it was as Joab kept watch on the
city, that he put Uriah at the place where he knew there were valiant men. And
the men of the city went out and fought against Joab, and some of the people
among David’s servants fell; and Uriah the Hittite also died. (2
Sam. 11:16-17)
Uriah’s unit sortied just below the city
walls. How tragic that such a valiant soldier was sacrificed for David’s lust.
Then Joab sent and reported to David
all the events of the war. And he charged the messenger, saying, “When you have
finished telling all the events of the war to the king, and if it happens that
the king’s wrath rises and he says to you, ‘Why did you go so near to the city
to fight? Did you not know that they would shoot from the wall? Who struck down
Abimelech the son of Jerubbesheth? Did not a woman throw an upper millstone on
him from the wall so that he died at Thebez? Why did you go so near the wall?’
then you shall say, ‘Your servant Uriah the Hittite is dead also.’ “ (2
Sam. 11:18-21)
Why
would Joab expect David to become angry? Because Joab made a tactical blunder
which cost the lives of several men. He left a unit exposed and unprotected so
its commander would be killed. When David heard this report he would probably
become furious with Joab for committing such a deadly error. So Joab said if
David becomes angry, just say to him, “Uriah the Hittite is dead also.” Joab
was protecting himself by reminding David of his previous order.
So the messenger departed and came
and reported to David all that Joab had sent him to tell. And the messenger
said to David, “The men prevailed against us and came out against us in the
field, but we pressed them as far as the entrance of the gate. Moreover, the
archers shot at your servants from the wall; so some of the king’s servants are
dead, and your servant Uriah the Hittite is also dead.” (2
Sam. 11:22-24)
Then
David played the hypocrite.
Then
David said to the messenger, “Thus you shall say to Joab, ‘Do not let this
thing displease you, for the sword devours one as well as another; make your
battle against the city stronger and overthrow it;’ and so encourage him.” (2
Sam. 11:25)
David’s
encouragement of Joab was sheer pretense. Joab lost the battle because he
obeyed David’s orders to have Uriah killed. David never before had treated the
loss of his men so casually. This was not his normal practice. No great captain
of history would be so philosophical in defeat as to say “the sword devours one
as well as another.”
Now
when the wife of Uriah heard that Uriah her husband was dead, she mourned for
her husband. (2 Sam. 11:26)
David’s
carnality brought sorrow and grief to Bathsheba who apparently loved her
husband and mourned for him. The sins of one believer often involve and hurt
others.
When the
time of mourning was over, David sent and brought her to his house and she
became his wife; then she bore him a son. But the thing that David had done was
evil in the sight of the Lord. (2 Sam. 11:27)
No
believer can be a winner when out of fellowship or outside the plan of God.
David was no exception. Not once during ‘Operation Bathsheba’ did David confess
his sins. He deserved what he gave Uriah, but after the entire incident David
was still alive. God still had a plan for his life. But only after undergoing
the severe physical and emotional agony of divine discipline did he finally
rebound. Then he could continue to mature as a believer.
WAS IT WORTH IT?
0 Lord, rebuke me not in Thy wrath;
and chasten me not in Thy burning anger. For Thine arrows have sunk deep into
me, and Thy hand has pressed down on me. (Ps. 38:1-2)
Here
is a picture of self-induced misery and piercing pain. David agonizes under the
ordeal he experiences from divine discipline for his sins. These “arrows” were
God’s arrows of discipline which penetrated to the depths of David’s soul, “Thy
hand has pressed down on me” is a figure of speech dramatizing the gravity of
David’s plight. He was being justly punished by the Lord.
There is no soundness in my flesh
because of Thine indignation; there is no health in my bones because of my sin.
For my iniquities are gone over my head; as a heavy burden they weigh too much
for me. My wounds grow foul and fester. Because of my folly, I am bent over and
greatly bowed down; I go mourning all day long.
(Ps. 38:3-6)
Verses
3-6 describe the traumatic emotional and physical consequences of David’s sin.
“No soundness in my flesh” is a Hebrew idiom for loss of health. David’s sins
affected his physical and mental health. His festering guilt became an
emotional burden that left him severely depressed which was reflected in his
physical demeanor.
The
severity of this discipline must be attributed to his failure to rebound (Ps.
32:3). When we fail to rebound and isolate our sin a chain reaction develops.
The original sin becomes compounded by guilt reaction coupled with various
mental attitude sins, including hypocrisy, fear, worry, anxiety, depression,
envy, bitterness, hatred, anger. Together these sins produce stress and anguish
in the soul, which in turn destroy physical health (Ps. 32:3-4).
For
my loins are filled with burning; and there is no soundness in my flesh. I am
benumbed and badly crushed; I groan because of the agitation of my heart.
(Ps. 38:7-8)
The
“loins” refer to the nervous system, which was affected by David’s mental
attitude sins. As a result of worry and anxiety his physical misery became so
intense that he wandered about groaning.
Lord, all my desire is before Thee;
and my sighing is not hidden from Thee. My heart throbs, my strength fails me;
and the light of my eyes, even that has gone from me.
(Ps. 38:9-10)
David’s
problem was overt sin driven by mental attitude sins, including guilt. The
ever-increasing stress these sins placed on David’s soul threatened his sanity.
He lost motivation, energy, the capacity for enjoying life.
My loved ones and my friends stand
aloof from my plague; and my kinsmen stand afar off.
(Ps. 38:11)
Not
only did David’s sins destroy his temporal fellowship with God and his health,
they devastated his human relationships. No one enjoys being around someone who
is always miserable. No one desires to become embroiled in God’s discipline of
another believer. David’s friends began to avoid him. Even his family gave him
a wide berth.
Those who seek my life lay snares
for me; and those who seek to injure me have threatened destruction, and they
devise treachery all day long. But I, like a deaf man, do not hear; and I am
like a dumb man who does not open his mouth. Yes, I am like a man who does not
hear, and in whose mouth are no arguments. (Ps. 38:12-14)
Divine
discipline may also include attacks from your enemies. David’s numerous enemies
relished the opportunity these calamitous circumstances offered. Though they
may not have understood the cause, they realized he had become weak and
vulnerable. Taking advantage of David’s weakness they devised cruel and devious
attacks against him.
In
this numbed condition David had little to say. Defenseless and breeding, he was
unmotivated to fight back. All the issues that make life worthwhile became
irrelevant to him. Having lost hope and hit bottom, he finally realized his
only hope was in the Lord. Only after intensive divine discipline does David
consider rebound.
For I hope in Thee, 0 Lord; Thou
wilt answer, 0 Lord my God. For I said, “May they not rejoice over me, who,
when my foot slips, would magnify themselves against me.” For I am ready to
fall and my sorrow is continually before me. (Ps. 38:15-17)
DAVID’S REBOUND
David’s
pain and misery became so unbearable that he longed to end his suffering.
For I confess my iniquity; I am full of
anxiety because of my sin. (Ps. 38:18)
The
first half of this verse, the confession, illustrates how to recover
fellowship. “For I confess my iniquity” was David’s prayer of rebound. Naming
sins to God the Father is all that is required. The second half of the verse
reveals David’s emotions at the time. Emotions may be present and are perfectly
normal, but are not the basis for divine forgiveness. Feeling sorry for his
sins was a legitimate reaction, but it is dependence upon God’s provision, not
human emotion, that restores the believer to fellowship.
WHAT A PRICE TO PAY!
What
finally brought David to his senses? God ordered Nathan the prophet to confront
the king, a fearful prospect since the unstable king was the final authority in
the land. Yet Nathan as a prophet had the responsibility to be critical of the
political leadership of Israel.
Nathan
chose to confront David by using a parable. In this narrative the events
illustrate David’s sins. But David had so rationalized and justified his sins
that he was blind to the application of the parable. He never would have
reacted with such indignation if he had understood its true meaning.
Then the Lord sent Nathan to David.
And he came to him, and said, “There were two men in one city; the one rich and
the other poor. The rich man had a great many flocks and herds. But the poor
man had nothing except one little ewe lamb which he bought and nourished; and
it grew up together with him and his children. It would eat of his bread and
drink of his cup and lie in his bosom, and was like a daughter to him. Now a
traveler came to the rich man, and he was unwilling to take from his own flock
or his own herd, to prepare for the wayfarer who had come to him; rather he
took the poor man’s ewe lamb and prepared it for the man who had come to him.” (2
Sam. 12:1-4)
If
David had not sunk so deeply into carnality he would have perceived the meaning
of the parable: He was the rich man. The poor man was Uriah the Hittite, now
dead. His only possession had been “one little ewe lamb” — Bathsheba.
In
ancient Israel the custom was to kill the fatted calf or lamb to welcome a
visitor. Rather than taking from his own abundant flocks, the rich man stole
the one lamb of the poor man. By application, David had several beautiful
wives, yet he took Bathsheba from Uriah.
Then David’s anger burned greatly
against the man, and he said to Nathan, “As the Lord lives, surely the man who
has done this deserves to die. And he must make restitution for the lamb
fourfold, because he did this thing and had no compassion.” (2
Sam. 12:5-6)
Why
was David so outraged? His sense of justice was offended, yet he failed to make
the personal application. Unwittingly, he pronounced his own judgment. Only
God’s grace commuted the death sentence (Ex. 21:14; Lev. 20:10). Instead of the
death penalty the Lord used a fourfold restitution as the basis for David’s
discipline. God chastened David beyond what has been recorded in Psalm 38. The
longer you remain out of fellowship, the higher the price you pay.
Nathan then said to David, “You are the
man!” (2 Sam. 12:7a)
The truth
struck David like a thunderbolt. But before he could react Nathan continued:
“Thus
says the Lord God of Israel, It is I who anointed you king over Israel and it
is I who delivered you from the hand of Saul. I also gave you your master’s
house and your master’s wives into your care, and I gave you the house of
Israel and Judah; and if that had been too little, I would have added to you
many more things like these!’ “ (2 Sam. 12:78-8)
David
was appointed king over Israel by the grace of God, not because of his
magnificent abilities. God brought it to pass, not David. Everything David had
was. courtesy of God’s grace. The same is true for all of us. Everything we
have, any blessing in life, is courtesy of the grace of God.
“Why have you despised the word of
the Lord by doing evil in His sight? You have struck down Uriah the Hittite
with the sword, have taken his wife to be your wife, and have killed him with
the sword of the sons of Ammon. Now therefore, the sword shall never depart
from your house, because you have despised Me, and have taken the wife of Uriah
the Hittite to be your wife.” (2 Sam. 12:9-10)
By
his sinful actions David “despised” the will of God. God pronounced David’s
discipline: Violence would plague his family for years to come.
“Thus says the Lord, ‘Behold, I will
raise up evil against you from your own household; I will even take your wives
before your eyes, and give them to your companion, and he shall lie with your
wives in broad daylight. Indeed you did it secretly, but I will do this thing
before all Israel, and under the sun.’ “ (2 Sam. 12:11-12)
David’s
sins had been committed in private, but his discipline would be administered in
public. All Israel would be witness. David himself proclaimed his discipline in
verse 6. God would punish him fourfold from his “own household.”
Second
Samuel 12:13 begins where David left off in Psalm 38:18. Did David say, I am
sorry for what I have done and regret every sin; will You forgive me? Not at
all! Notice how specific David’s rebound is.
Then David said to Nathan, “I have
sinned against the Lord.” And Nathan said to David, “The Lord also has taken
away your sin; you shall not die.” (2 Sam. 12:13)
God
instantly forgave and forgot David’s sins. Those past sins no longer kept David
from fellowship with God. David need never again feel the oppressive guilt and
overwhelming anxiety he expressed in Psalm 38. On the authority of God’s Word
those sins were blotted out. To feel guilty for those sins again would have
been another sin — the rejection of God’s wonderful grace provision of rebound.
Divine
forgiveness never depends on our feelings, our degree of guilt, or even our
faith. Forgiveness depends on God’s promise to cancel the sins when we name
them to Him. To experience the blessing of renewed fellowship and to avoid the
guilt trap, we must have confidence that God has forgiven and forgotten our
sins and that we are cleansed “from all unrighteousness.” Then we, too, can
share in David’s praise of God:
How blessed is he whose
transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered! How blessed is the man to whom
the Lord does not impute iniquity, and in whose spirit there is no deceit!
(Ps. 32:1-2)
David’s
sins were completely forgiven. The remainder of David’s discipline was accomplished
through members of his own family. David paid fourfold for his sins:
1.
The child born of adultery died (2 Sam. 12:14-15).
2.
Amnon, David’s son, raped David’s daughter Tamar (2 Sam. 13:1-14).
3. Absalom
murdered Amnon to revenge Tamar (2 Sam. 13:22- 29).
4.
Absalom, the son David loved the most, led a national revolt against his father
(2 Sam. 1518).
His discipline finally terminated in
2 Samuel 18:33 when David heard of the death of Absalom. And thus he said as he
walked, “0 my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! Would I have died instead of
you, 0 Absalom, my son, my son!” (2 Sam. 18:33)
When
David heard the news of Absalom’s death, he staggered under the pain of his
loss. The discipline for his sins had come to an end. The four installments
extended over a period of about fifteen years. If his discipline had been meted
out at one time he may not have survived.
Though
David’s discipline was severe, because he had rebounded his suffering was for
blessing. David advanced spiritually throughout these years. He learned to
depend on the Lord in the most adverse circumstances. Many of the lessons David
learned are preserved in the Psalms he authored during the Absalom revolution
when he lost everything and became a fugitive. By staying in fellowship David
was able to accelerate his spiritual advance exemplifying the principle of
cursing turned to blessing.
THE DIVINE TRAINING PROGRAM
The
tragic example of David in the Bathsheba incident illustrates the trauma of
divine discipline. The twelfth chapter of Hebrews warns us not to forget the
reality and repercussions of God’s discipline.
And you have forgotten the
exhortation which is addressed to you as sons, “My son, do not regard lightly the
[corrective] discipline of the Lord, nor faint when you are reproved by Him;
for those whom the Lord loves He disciplines [warning discipline], and He
scourges every son whom He receives [intensive discipline].”
(Heb. 12:5-6)
To be
a winner, the basketball player must perform within set boundaries. Just as the
referee blows a whistle when the player steps out of bounds, God blows the
whistle by administering discipline when the believer steps out of bounds
through sin.
God
begins with warning discipline to alert the believer to his carnality and
motivate him to rebound. If the believer continues in carnality, “regards
lightly the discipline of the Lord,” God intensifies the punishment. Unless
rebound is used this intensive discipline becomes dying discipline, the sin
unto death (1 John 5:16).
God’s
punitive action is never arbitrary or abusive. God is always just and fair.
Divine discipline is an integral part of God’s training program for the
believer in the royal family. God’s discipline is both an evidence of our
sonship (John 1:12) and a manifestation of God’s love for us even when we are
carnal.
DO NOT FAIL THE GRACE OF GOD
It is for discipline that you
endure; God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom his father
does not discipline? But if you are without discipline, of which all have
become partakers, then you are illegitimate children and not sons. Furthermore,
we had earthly fathers to discipline us, and we respected them; shall we not
much rather be subject to the Father of spirits, and live? For they disciplined
us for a short time as seemed best to them, but He disciplines us for our good,
that we may share His holiness [integrity]. (Heb. 12:7-10)
Wise,
loving parents discipline their children to train them for proper orientation
to life as adults. Through discipline children learn humility, respect for
authority, teachability, and objectivity indispensable qualities for maturity.
Just as parental discipline prepares children for human maturity, God’s
discipline prepares believers for spiritual maturity. With spiritual maturity
the believer can handle the vicissitudes of life.
“And
live” means that when we rebound we can continue to advance in the Christian
life. The more time we spend in fellow- ship, the more we can learn and apply
Bible doctrine. As we grow spiritually our capacity for life and blessing
increases and our life is enriched.
To
“share His -holiness” encompasses the entire spectrum of the advance to
spiritual maturity in the Christian life. God disciplines us to get our
attention and to bring us back to reality. Once focused we rebound, recover,
and move on.
All discipline for the moment seems not to
be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards
it yields the peaceful fruit of- righteousness. (Heb. 12:11)
Punishment
is painful, never pleasant. Discipline is designed for correction and training.
The child that is never corrected grows up to be a rebellious, miserable,
self-absorbed adult who is maladjusted to life. However, the child that has
been well-trained has a greater opportunity to be stable and adjusted to life.
Believers that respond to divine discipline by rebound are filled with the
Spirit, have the potential for spiritual maturity and the ‘greater grace”
blessings of the spiritual life (James 4:6).
Therefore, strengthen the hands that
are weak and the knees that are feeble [rebound], and make straight paths for
your feet, so that the limb which is lame may not be put out of joint, but rather
be healed. Pursue peace with all men, and the sanctification without which no
one will see the Lord. (Heb. 12:12-14)
Strengthening
weak hands and feeble knees and making straight paths are synonyms for rebound
resulting in the filling of the Holy Spirit, the source of spiritual strength.
Rebound transforms you from the weakness of carnality to the strength of a
restored spiritual life. The spiritual life is healed because the cursing has
turned to blessing. The weakness of cursing under discipline becomes the
strength of suffering for blessing.
One
final warning concerning discipline is in verse 15:
See to it that no one comes short of
the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and
by it many be defiled. (Heb. 12:15)
Some
people respond to discipline from the Lord with bitterness and continue in
bitterness. They become obstructionists, miserable people who are obstacles to
their own spiritual growth and to the spiritual lives of others. They will
never recover and become oriented to grace again, unless they understand the
true purpose of discipline.
God
has provided the believer with the perfect solution for sin. Since the moment
we were saved God has always dealt with us in grace. He disciplines in grace;
He forgives in grace; He blesses in grace. Rebound is the epitome of grace.
Rebound
is the simplest yet most incredible concept in the spiritual life. The ease
with which we name our sins and are forgiven by God memorialize His matchless
grace. Rebound defeats sin and accesses the power of God. At our fingertips is
the key that unlocks the Christian way of life. To grasp rebound is to open the
door to the wonderful spiritual freedom that God’s grace offers to every
believer in Jesus Christ. Do not fail the grace of God; the grace of God never
fails you. Rebound and keep moving!