YEAR: 1970	SERIES: Right Man/ Right Woman
744	1	01/22/1970	1 Tim. 3:12

1Cor. 7:2–4	Doctrine of right man/right woman
744	2	02/22/1970	Gen. 2:20 Eph. 5:31

Jer. 31:22 Ezek. 16:1
744	3	03/01/1970	1Cor. 11:7	Doctrine of right man/right woman
744	4	03/01/1970	Eph. 5:22 Ezek. 16:1–24, 60–63 1Cor. 7:10–11	Right man/right woman
744	5	03/15/1970	Eph. 5:22 Gen. 2:20	Doctrine of right man/right woman
744	6	03/22/1970	Eph. 5:22 Jer. 2	Doctrine of right man/right woman
744	7	03/29/1970	Eph. 5:23 Jer. 31:1–25 Prov. 5:1–2
744	8	04/05/1970	Eph. 5:23–24

Prov. 18:22 19:13–14

1Cor. 11:7
744	9	04/12/1970	Eph. 5:25	Doctrine of the cup; male responsibility; man, the aggressor
744	10	09/10/1970	Song of Sol. 8:6–7	Doctrine of category 2 love; doctrine of jealousy
744	11	10/02/1970	Song of Sol. 6:10	How to recognize your right man or right woman
744	12	11/02/1970	Song of Sol. 6:10	Doctrine of aggressiveness, true and false

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1970 RM/RW	1 Tim. 3:12 1Cor. 7:2–4	Lesson #1

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01/22/1970 1Tim. 3:12 1Cor. 7:2–4 Doctrine of right man/right woman

Word of God is alive and powerful sharper than any two edged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of the soul in the spirit of the giants in the marrow and is a critique of thoughts and intents of the heart. All scripture is God breathed and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness that the man of God might be mature furnished unto all good works study to show thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. Open the word of truth this evening. First of all, but not last to First Timothy chapter three verse 12.

You're probably wondering is this Thursday night and you are correct. This is Thursday night. Next Thursday night, we'll continue with John 18 one.

This is sort of the end of exam week, and several things have happened. And this is a special.

Now at the tapers have a slight advantage because they have a blackboard? And we have someone designated to write on the blackboard. Any special as that occurs. And on the blackboard I assume it probably says the doctrine of the right man and the right woman. Now I understand that Herman went in there tonight and looked at that and he says, Well, I've got one half of it now.

So we'll see if we can get the rest.I never would have known that except David Paul asked the word.

David Paul kind of keeps track of things for me back there.

First Timothy chapter three verse 12, preparing ourselves for the study of this great doctrine.

Now began by having a word of silent prayer.

This gives you the opportunity of exercising your option of being filled with the Spirit, or not through the rebound technique. Rebound should always be a matter of privacy. Therefore, we will have silent prayer to give you the opportunity to confess any known sins in the life, to make sure that you begin our study the ceiling filled with the spirit let us pray.

Thank you Father for that glorious moment in eternity past.

When you provided everything we would ever need.

And you do it on the basis of your own character and therefore it's all grace.

Now as we examine this doctrine this evening.

My God the Holy Spirit, keep our minds alert that we might comprehend the things that we are studying.

But these things might be stored in the human spirit that they might be the basis of evaluating and making one of the most important decisions in this life, or we ask it in Christ's name. Amen.

This is the nearly the end of the exam week. Some are still caught Of course in the exams among our college young people.

One of the high school gang came into the office tonight to tell me that he didn't have the thing to do.

And I can't think of a better time to dedicate a message to the young people Beracah church. And since this will go out on the tapes I think that the people who hear this on tape so to know something. We have them coming out of our ears.

We have no program for young people. We do not offer them any social life. No entertainment.

This is not a Lonely Hearts Club.

And anyone one of you can look around here the night and you can see that we have high school young people college young people Junior High Elementary.

And the postgraduate crowd. Furthermore, this is dedicated to all who are single never give up is the motto for the moment. And tonight we are going to study the doctrine of the right man and the right woman, and the reason we're going to study it is very simple.

I'm preparing a message for Sunday you know that we're going to elect deacons on Sunday. And the election of deacons is a very important function and I suspect we ought to really know more of the biblical specifications.

So I'm going to bring a series during Sunday on the qualifications of a deacon and obviously I'm going to use First Timothy three. And we break right into First Timothy chapter three verse 12, where it says let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, of course that's a little confusing husbands, plural, or one wife singular ruling their children in their own houses. Well, what are a couple of things wrong with this first of all let V is a bad translation of the present active imperative of Amy.

I am is absolute status quo verbi I am I am the president active imperative should never be translated let be that's too weak.

It should be translated keep on being.

Furthermore, we have evocative here deacons keep on being now their next word is not husbands, but is a man deacons keep on being a man of one wife. So let me give you the correct translation deacons. Keep on Bing. Now I'm going to even give a more literal translation keep on being man of one woman.

And this is the word on air. An ER nodo man. Any man that has the right woman is a noble man for no other reason than he has the right woman that in itself is very significant in life. We're going to study, another facet of suffering.

Let Lu Harpole sit down back there if you don't mind.

We're not in john denied Lu word starting in First Timothy chapter three, and you're here just in time.

Whenever a man or a woman gets married and marries the wrong person. They are going to perpetuate suffering throughout their lifetime, there's no getting around it. If they break out, they're going to suffer from the breakout if they stay in it, they're going to suffer from staying in outside of believing in Jesus Christ which is the greatest decision in life. The next greatest decision that any member of the human race can make is to decide for the right person, the right man must find the right woman, the right woman must find the right man, I don't know when the right man aggressively says something about marriage. Her response should be yes it must be right man and right woman, and anything else is as close as you will ever come to that phrase which is such a misnomer hell on her.

Hell is in hell and that's future. But if anybody has any if anyone wanted to describe how on earth and one sense is very simple. Married to the wrong woman married to the wrong man.

And tonight, this is the perfect time to get this doctor you know why because we are loaded tonight with our own young people. They're back from college, they're things are quiet in high school right now. And in some ways, it looks like the teenage class on Wednesday night.

Now this doesn't say a husband of one wife. A man of being a man of one woman, or as someone wanted to translate it literally once in seminary, a man of one goon it's goon a.

I better put the Greek in so you girls won't completely faint wasn't that funny. That's better. All right.

Now I was kicking this thing around the day and it suddenly occurred to me that I have yet. In spite of a lot of pressure from Ron. To give you a categorical development of the doctrine of the right man for the right woman, or the doctrine. One man dash, one woman.

I've always hesitated to really give this doctrine because I suspect they're always X number of unhappily married people we just have to ignore them.

Because some of you have made the great or most of you have made the greatest decision in this life, you have made the decision to believe in Christ as Savior. Now there is another decision that many of you have to face right man right one. And if you blow this one. How long misery, one of the causes of suffering and one of the greatest causes of suffering in life is the marrying the wrong person hooking up with the wrong person.

All right, deacons these are Deacon Candidates in our case, keep on being a man, a noble man of one woman. All right, get your pencils and papers out you've had a couple minutes to do so, the doctrine of the right man for the right woman point one and tonight we're going to look up each point.

Almost every point.

Does everyone have the same thing now you have on your paper doctrine of the right man for the right woman point one, the pattern of the right man right woman was established at creation two points, we'll deal with this. This is the first, the pattern of right man, right woman was established at the creation of man, Genesis 221 through 25.

Genesis two.

You may now turn to that passage.

Now, don't get shark if I go too fast. I don't see how I can Frankly, I'm down in compound super low right now. Something slips by you don't worry about it goes so some Tuesday night real soon under the doctrine of suffering we'll get some of this again. No.

Different slightly different angle of course, the pattern a right man right one that was established at creation Genesis 221 through 25. In other words, the point here is God's set a precedent. It is not my objective to do much extra Jesus tonight except for absolutely necessary.

I will be very brief and some of these passages and some will require a little careful acts of Jesus.

Verse 21.

And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam why, because in first one he Adam gave names to all the cattle into the fall of the air to every beast of the field. He went through categorizing everything. But it became obvious to Adam that he could not be on a basis of intimacy with the animal creation. But for Adam, there was not found, and help meet for him. The word helped me is a responder and fulfiller.

So the Lord God Jesus Christ is the Lord God Jehovah Jehovah Allah He caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam.

Really and he slept a deep sleep means one in which he is not awakened by the operation. And he took one of his ribs, that the Hebrews says he took out one of his ribs or removed one of his ribs and sewed up the flesh, instead thereof or sealed it up really didn't sell it.

Now God has a rib in his hand.

Just a rehab. And from this ramp was going to come, I don't know, it just all a lot of man's happiness, and a lot of man's troubles I've reversed the river around made it vertical warehouse Rab, I often think that the Lord may have chuckled for a moment at this point isn't recorded here.

And the rib which the Lord God had taken from me and this is verse 22 made and I like this word, the guess what we do not have here we do not have barah that means to create something out of nothing. We do not have Asa that means to make something out of something, we do not have yacht sir that means the fish are in a mold I just selected that one. We have another word. And I love this. bhana. You know what it means. Well, let me show it ba and he means to build.

He didn't fashion. He didn't make out of something like as a didn't make it out of nothing because he's holding a ribbon his hand.

He by nod. He built a woman.

A woman was not created she was built by Nah, I am, I want you to notice something.

All Adams radar is out. He doesn't even know what he needs. But I'll tell you one thing. He wasn't pulling an operation Herman, he wasn't, and you know hopping around the auditorium.

He wants to be shopping. Get this now. It's a very it's very, very important.

And it probably makes some of you wonder sometimes but this is important to all of us.

The Lord actually brought the woman to the man. He didn't hide her somewhere and say now you find her. You see your tape that would have cranked up his aggressiveness.

He said, But notice what he did, he made, he built a woman, and he brought her to the man and you know something there is a sense in which every time the right man, and the right woman get together. There is a sense in which whether it's a lever or an unbeliever remember this is for the human race.

There's a sense in which God brings it about. He brings the woman to the man.

Now this doesn't mean necessarily that it doesn't mean that you sit on a park bench and wait till what appears to be an angel leads a beautiful dog right to your park bench.

Now that's misapplication of the faith rinse technique.

While in some ways that approximates it because every time you get on the panic button, whether you're a man or a woman, about your opposite number, as some of you definitely have some of you get the panic button say I don't believe it. That's the cynical crowd. Some of you have understand what I've taught about this in the past but you don't accept it. Some of you said one on me.

That's the flattering crowd. And the hems Ville bunch.

And in between there are those who say this is something I must faith rest. I'll just wait.

Now there's a principle involved are in grace. God brought the woman to the man.

That's grace. And then, Adam had to name her. He named all the animals and first 20. Now he had to name someone in his own species. And so notice what he did when he saw her, he said this now is bone of my bones apparently he was clued in about the read and flesh of my flesh. In other words, she has a human body.

It's a different body from atoms, but it's a human body its flesh and bone.

She shall be called and I don't like that English word woman never thought it was a very beautiful word, but I think it's better than the Greek word which is usually Guney.

But the Hebrew word is beautiful, here it is, Isha.

She shall be called Isha.

I like that.

I think he did too, because she was taken from eesh. He is the same as on air in the Hebrew, we have the word dish.

I sh that's man, Isha is the woman.

The word the comparable word in coin a Greek is on air, and er, again the copper board here is gu ne.

Now notice verse 24 Therefore, by the way the precedent is set one man for one while I want you to notice, God didn't bring a creature with two heads, called a female.

He didn't bring two creatures to lemon. He didn't bring out half a creature, one for one.

Now, how do you know they were different? Next verse, Therefore, I love this because there weren't any around therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother Adam didn't have a father and a mother, neither did his wife.

Well why put father and mother and because this passage establishes precedent.

And when you establish precedent, even though in laws do not exist. They will in the history of the human race. And to show that this is a firm established principle, from time from the beginning of time, to the end of human history. There must be a statement about the greatest danger to marriage interference from parent's interference into the privacy of the two who have made the decision and therefore from the beginning, before in laws existed and laws are told that keep their nose, out of their children's business when the children become adults. If you can't train them by 20, or 21, then forget it. You can't train them period, keep your nose, out of their business.

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother? When you leave your father and your mother you're responsible for your own decisions. And if you are a man and you ask a woman to marry you. You're responsible for that decision. And if you're a woman, and you accept some monster, you're responsible for the decision.

And notice, and shall cleave to his wife and the word clean means clean it's more than that, it means joined.

In other words, it means sex, and they had sex on the garden. Perfect sex right man right woman.

And cleaving to the wife mean sex I never heard, I've heard this, in many wedding ceremonies and people love the beautiful old English. I wish someone had given a literal translation and watch the crowd fall down.

Wow, there's so much to break out the champagne before was the wedding was on.

But that's what it means. And those sets of precedent sucks was designed. There's going to shock, some of you. For right man, and right moment. And no one else. And I have in my hands here tonight. A paper which is being written for a doctor's degree.

It is written by a man who's going to get his doctor's degree in psychology and the title is premarital sex implications for marriage by Sheldon t McWilliams.

And in this particular in his doctor's dissertation here. This book, this person, apparently is not a believer he is a psychologist he's a student of psychology a graduate student, and he demonstrates from psychology, that there is such a thing as a right man and a right woman. Now how are you going to do it?

I never saw a psychologist that knew enough about the soul to handle it. He proves it from sex. When I pronounce the benediction I'll stick this in my pocket and it just won't be left around for. I may quote from it tonight. It's fantastic. Here is a, you see right manner right woman belongs to the unbeliever as well as to the believer.

And here's the psychological dissertation. To demonstrate the fact that the key is insects, and that it's a very wonderful thing, and a thing that existed in the garden, and we still have it is a wonderful thing.

Now the verse that people say yeah Apple I like apples too. Well, no forbidden fruit was not an apple. So we can knock that one out.

But a sex is something that existed in innocence, and we still have the only difference is, we still we have an all set nature along with it.

And this, sometimes follows up the situation drastically. All right, now we have point one and the doctrine of right man or right woman, the pattern of right man right woman was established at creation Genesis 221 through 25. Now look at verse 25.

It says at the end of verse 24, they shall be one flesh. They are only one when they are united sexually.

I want you to understand something else. They were both naked, the man and his woman, and they were not ashamed.

Now, many people are very shy, we have some people who are muscle man and exhibitionists among the females who are not ashamed of their body at all and they don't mind letting everyone know just how much polka tude is tied up in one package.

And these people aren't ashamed either course let them get a few scars and a few wrinkles and so on and all that will change. But the right man, and the right woman can be naked together. And get this, not ashamed now listen I'm talking about the Bible, some of you look like you're bound to feed the right man, and the right woman, regardless of age, regardless of any other factor, and the presence of each other. Listen, they might be the most shy bashful I want my privacy and then some types. But when the right man, and the right woman are together, they weren't naked, and they were not ashamed, all of this sets a precedent.

I think you're waiting me loud and clear. Let's try point two.

Let me announce where we're going first and then I'll give you the point I think that's going to work out a little better.

Let's go now to Ephesians 531 and 33. Ephesians 531 through 33, we're going to bounce all over on this evasions 531 through 33.

All right, now get your pencils, let's write.

Just as there is one edification complex for one soul did you ever notice that all of you are aware of the fact that you do not have two heads.

You're aware of the fact you have one hand. You are also aware from the teaching from this pulpit, that there's only one edification complex force, one soul not to edification complexes. So we start with an analogy.

Just as there is one edification complex for one soul. Soul, there is one man for one woman in God's design.

Justice there is one edification complex for one soul. So there is one man for one woman under the God's design. Ephesians, 531.

All right, let's look at it.

For this cause analogy between the church, the universal church and Christ in previous verse, For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, quoting from Genesis 224 the passage we just had seen there's here's this passage quoted the precedent passage as I call it, for this car shall a man leave his father and mother and be joined unto his wife. And they two shall be one flesh.

The original marriage ceremony was sex. And that was true, and practice throughout human history for several thousands of years we've refined it a little bit.

Now notice verse 32. The two shall be one flesh. That's marriage, that's sex that's Love, love, love and expressed and sex. Verse 32. This is a great mystery, not sex, the edification complex of the soul is the great mystery.

The subject of this part of Ephesians, air is the soul.

Below is the human spirit where doctrine resides residual doctrine here's the edification complex grace orientation, inner happiness.

I'm going to change this up, I think, but I will make a remarks mental attitude capacity to love mastery of the details of life.

One edification complex for one soul. This is the great mystery that which is taught in the last half of Ephesians.

This is a great mystery but I speak concerning Christ and the church. You see, edification complex Christ and his relationship to the church, our relationship with Christ on earth depends upon the edification complex of the soul.

Nevertheless, let every one of you. Please notice in part titular.

This means you as an individual, so love his wife or his woman.

Even as himself.

Unless a person is abnormal. It is impossible for a person to be indifferent to himself. And this phraseology indicates one person is designed for one person. The design is in the soul. The design is in the body, we will come to the design and the body later on. And while the human race is divided into X number of males and X number of females. Don't ever kid yourself this is not true. Any port in a storm is a lie, vacuous apostasy, and yet at some time or another every normal red blooded male who has been Dear John doar phased out has probably had some thought about any port in the storm.

And so for you, young people, to avoid one of the first pitfalls that is the devil's own lie. Any port in a storm is blasphemous tragic and leads to a continuous and endless series of sufferings and adversities.

Any port in a storm is a fallacy.

Now, nevertheless, let every one of you in particular. So keep loving his wife, even as himself, and bought about the wife and she loved the man, negative. And she's the right woman that will never be a problem and so she isn't commanded to throughout this passage, the husband is commanded to love the woman, but the woman is never commanded to love the husband. What is what it says here, and a woman? The word see doesn't occur, that she reverence. Her husband, and the word reverence is the present middle subjunctive our fullback, or, which looks like this in the Greek pH ob el, and you know what full battle means it means to fear.

Aha. Now let's take a look at this. When you have the right woman. You walk in and you say woman, she's cowering on the floor tremble.

Well that's not true either.

So obviously, full battle means something besides fear. I've been telling you that for years but some of you didn't believe it so you took a little Greek and you said, while you keep saying this is occupation with Christ but my Greek text says full battle. Yes, but you see full battle on almost any first year vocabulary is to fear, but full battle also means to respect.

There is just one response from the right woman, and it includes the whole package, respect.

When the right man initiate love toward the right woman, they how if she has a lot of emotional stuff. It could be the wrong man, but if she has all of this so called love. And all of the emotion which is appreciation that's bonfire. If she doesn't have these things respect.

She has the wrong man.

Now girls put it down in your notes little extra for you never marry a man you don't respect.

I'm going to do a little shout out and I reason is because too many members of the human race are stupid.

And there's no excuse for never met a young man you can't respect that I love him I've heard that a jillion times, I'd be a millionaire if I had had a dime for every time some weeping females, but I loved him so much respect it doesn't even tell you the love, you will don't worry about that when the right man comes along, you'll love him and you what else you do your PT.

There is something about the right man you love him at times, and you hate him at times, and your feelings toward him are always strong, you're never neutral about it, and why because the key is not love and not hate. The key is, pardon the expression, respect, and when you hate him. You're respecting, and when you love him. You're respecting, and when you're mad at it, you're respecting, and when you're glad about him, you respect him. And that's a normal response to the right man.

Now your emotions can be trade your thinking can deceive you.

But if you are a born again believer, and you are cycling doctrine from the human spirit into your mind as a frame of reference. Part of that frame of reference has to do with what the Bible teaches about the right man, or the right woman. And the man Yes, he loves aggressively and doesn't change. Maybe you've had the experience of telling some young lady that you love her, and she wears minuses. Well, how come she isn't at that particular point, or why arch, or as you put it this way this is she, this is called infighting, why don't believe she may be very happy by but she doesn't believe it says nice infighting. Well, you see, the thing that will be developed in her relationship with the right man is respect. The thing that will be developed with him is love, aggressive initiating love, and he always loves her, and he's stable about it, while she's hating him or liking him, or disliking him or loving him, but always respecting him. They were are being sentimental ladies, be aware about being sentimental about a man whom you do not respect life's too short, forgetting.

If you can't respect a man. Give him a wide berth.

Well, we're making some progress.

Where do we hit the next one? Jeremiah 3122.

Wow, this is a daily.

Jeremiah 3122 and point three. You know I have 12 points.

This may go into tomorrow night.

But he was came into the office today and he put a couple of objects down on the desk and I can't reproduce them exactly he said Now tell me what these are, what is this what doctrine does this remind you up. And one of them was like this, and had arms that went down like this sort of, and the other one was like this, and had those arms that went down like that and the feet here. This was an ape.

And this one was an ape. And you just had them write down right even with each other this is what doctors that remind you, and I had a bite on so I didn't know he says, right man right 1.3.

Now this is going to shock you the right man, and the right woman have bodies designed for each other, and no other body will work there's a key and there's a lot. And there's one key, or one last night, you put this down, I don't expect some of you ever know what I'm talking about. That goes without saying.

And for some of you, did you ever get the wrong key in a lock and jam around there.

But that could be the story of your married life for the next 50 years. There's not any way to open a door. There's a bird in the back there's laughing he's gonna have a rough life.

I Jeremiah 3122, the right man. And right woman. God has designed their bodies to match perfectly.

Jeremiah 3122. Now let's look at it, we have covered in part this passage before.

This is a warning of the fifth cycle of discipline. This is a warning of Jewish apostasy. And in verse 22 Jeremiah says how long without go about all thou backsliding daughter. For the law. Now the backsliding daughter is Judah, Judah is pictured as a woman. And this passage sets up an analogy between the Jews, and their relationship to the Lord, and the right man's relationship to the right woman see this is an analogy.

As Judah, or the Jews let's just say the Jews of this time. They have a relationship with the Lord. So, the right woman has a relationship with the right man. So if the Jews are out of kilter with their relationship. What are they called backsliding daughter. So your daughter isn't backsliding.

The Jews belong to the Lord. And just as the Jews of Judah belong to the Lord. So the right woman fits the right man you get it down just that way and this is coming out in the Hebrew here.

The Jews of Judah are called backsliding.

They cause of their apostasy because of their scar tissue.

Now here is the other side of the analogy where our doctrine occurs, we're not dealing with the doctrine of the fifth cycle of discipline or we develop one side of the analogy.

But the side of the analogy that is pertinent to our subject is here. The Lord hath created a new thing and the earth. The Lord is Jesus Christ who is the creator. And he did this at the point of the creation of man, this is the cow perfect from baraba.

And the new thing, which the Lord created to resolve the angelic conflict was the man, but man is not left alone. So we have the right man, and the right woman now notice for the Lord. This is the middle of verse 22. The Lord have created a new thing in the earth. And here's what the Lord created a woman, shall in compass, a man will be very academic about this I'll give you the sentence as it stands in the Hebrew, the first word is Nick Cave Ah, looks like this.

Nick Cave Ah, the second word is Sylvain.

And the third word, I can't draw and do it all the way across to his guy there.

All right, there's your sentence. Now cave to Solvay we've gone there, and that is a revolutionary statement, and it has been hidden in this passage, and as fuck. And I even went and looked up about 25 commentators today, and they came up with the worst gobbledygook I have ever seen. And they all ducked out on the issue. And it still hit.

What a sentence. This is fantastic. Oh, when the Lord Jesus Christ Barnard built a woman. What did you do next? What do you do?

He led the woman over to the man right now that's when we pick it up right here, and a woman, and compost, the man army that isn't quite what is no other words, what does woman go at all.

Why a woman does goes, man. I could have asked that anytime from five on my goodness give you an answer.

All right, I guess maybe some of you're in shock.

Well, you're gonna be if you're not yet. This is one of those things no one ever bothered to translate. Let's start with that first word Nick Cave Ah, oh boy this is.

I love this word.

No.

Cave Ah, looks like this in the English. Now we've had Isha. That's the woman as she came from the hand of the Lord. This doesn't really mean woman.

Not at all. This means this word is the Hebrew word for female with an emphasis on her body, Isha emphasizes the whole woman the soul and the body, but the key VA emphasizes the fact that the woman's body is different from the man's body. Now the second word was tasovevaAramis missing remember up here. That is the Pl am perfect from the verb Savelyev, which looks like this.

Solve AB or Savi Eve. And it's the Pl and what is the Pl Stam in tan Save, and the imperfect means this action has not been completed as almost anyone can tell you, has a long time to run yet.

And the word sob have you know what it means and the cowl it means to surround to encompass.

You know what it means in the Pl.

It means to embrace to fit the woman. All women are designed differently, all women have the same physiology now you can relax.

Listen, if you can't take in this kind of teaching. You don't belong here that we're talking about the Bible.

You can't take good Bible teaching us ought to get in some rah rah club because you're in the wrong spot.

We all know well nearly all of us know that a woman's physiological being is quite different from a man's, and we always say that's because the woman there is the children.

That is an adult, she does but that's beside the point.

The point is, though a woman is designed like a rock. And every woman's physical, sexual apparatus is different.

I mean, different.

And there is only one man who is designed for a specific woman, only one.

And you may have and your lifetime operation skeleton key but is wrong. It won't work.

And not only does the Bible say this coming up at another point, but this psychological masterpiece says promiscuity destroys your whole concept of sex. And a lot of you think that a little fun now and so what oh are you mistaken.

You're so far out of line and you're thinking that you're practically making you're gonna make a show of your life.

There is a physiological secret or two that are vitally important the right man and the right woman, as parents could pass on to their children so they would know.

But there is a secret that is so fantastic physiologically that when it occurs, the right man or the right woman might even roll back and say, I must I must be something wrong.

It's not supposed to go this way, it's so great juicy, what's being taught here.

And I want you to notice the woman, and complies. The man. We understand that man is the aggressor. But, a man can be an aggressor. And be armed with a wrong person. And it's no good. The woman must encompass the man, and I said I've already told you, this is vam and appeals to him.

And it means a perfect fit. Now, that is an all, because we've already seen that the word woman is a woman as female, and that the word, so vague is really to Allah, let's use the word fit in an embrace. Now the word man isn't man.

It's God air. You know what God bear is here all male hero, and other words, when a woman, and complies campuses, right, man, the right man is no longer just a man. He is the hero.

Now, as I say, some of you will never know what is being taught here.

Some of you will. If you are single right now I'm going to inject some application this point promiscuity can lead to more on happiness than almost anything except mental attitude scenes.

And it isn't worth it. Because, and all of this vast world. There is just one opposite number you for you design in eternity past.

Just one.

And you don't have to worry. God doesn't gonna lose it in the computer somewhere. Now a literal translation.

The female shell fit that he wrote.

When I go on with this but we better move to point four let's try first Corinthians 11 seven, which gives us the resolve these are in a logical sequence although I may omit to mention it. First Corinthians 11 seven is the next point.

Now, before we get into First Corinthians 11 seven let me give you the point, the right woman, therefore, is the glory of the man this explains the word hero guy there.

And before we look at first Corinthians 11 seven, the right woman is the glory of the man.

Look at first of all verse 13.

Judging yourselves, think about this is it, commonly or proper that a woman pray unto God uncovered and that says a negative may there which means no it isn't proper for a woman to pray uncovered.

Well, how is she covered we'll find out in verse 50 verse 14 says, Now please notice. Now, does the Bible say this but nature confirms it does not even nature itself keep on teaching you, that if a man have long hair. It is a shame onto him.

Thank God I'm glad I got a haircut yesterday. If a man have long hair, it's a shame under him.

What if a woman have long here. It's a glory to her. Her hair is given to her for a covering. Now what is this see, there are two glories of the woman in this passage. Her long hair is a glory, and the man's short hair is his honor. And the short hair of the man and the long hair, or the woman signify something short hair, man. Long Hair woman.

What do they signify, they signify the design and plan of God, that the woman is inevitably submissive to the man, insatiability design of doctrine that the woman in her sin failed? She was the aggressor. And man was played the woman's part and now that's changed.

And in any society where you find throughout history where a man had long hair, you are looking at the signs the overt signs of a decadent society. And there has never been in history, a society that practiced homosexual ism without a comparable long hair, like the Greeks, in the age of para Cleves. And interestingly enough, in the beginnings of Roman power, the Romans had short hair.

And many of the great Romans, whose real been carved out of marble and out of metals, who have survived had short hair. And then you look at the age of Louie the 14th.

It's pitiful.

And you want to read the financial report. During the age of Louie the 14th, because there's a comparable historical principle between the Manoir soap stockings. Hi, read he heels and long parent leaves, down to the shoulders. And there's a historical relationship. They call them, gentlemen. I call them gypsies and other things. And by the way, Jesus Christ.

Jesus Christ had short hair you see but I've never seen any picture like that. Well, look at the goop to pay to the pictures, an annoying thing about the Bible.

It's a shame for a man to have short hair and Jesus Christ was a man.

Now let's see the other glory, since the hair is the woman's glory, why is it the woman's glory, well here's your answer. Verse seven for a man to date ought not to cover his head for as much as he is the image, and the glory of God that's noble man there and that's believer as a principle. And it's the believer responding to doctrine, you see the whole system of gap has an analogy, in the relationship between the man and the woman doctrine goes into the mind, but it does doctrine and doctrines called the seed that goes into the mind when it's understood it's true, and transferred by faith. Here is where the doctrine is stored. And here is where the children from doctrine come, exhale out the left bank toward God, exhale out the right bank toward man cycle there's a frame of reference and the building of an edification complex doctrine doesn't have children till it's down here you see. So, excuse me, there's a direct analogy.

What is when man is the glory of God it is because man has an edification complex in the soul? The doctrine is stored here residual doctrine, and the occasion complexes erected. And this is the glory of God and this is how a man is the image and glory of God.

Now the image has to do with the characteristics of his soul man his self-consciousness God has self-consciousness man has mentality God has infinite mentality. Man has got a man has volition God has sovereignty man has emotion appreciation God has appreciation and so on God, man has norms and standards God has norms and standards. So the is the image part, and this is the glory part. But when it goes into the rest of the analogy. Notice what it says. But the woman keeps on being memy present active integrity, the glory of demand. When the woman, the right woman is fulfilled by the right man. Then, the woman reflects, first of all he fulfills her soul, she has apertures in the soul. Let's this is the right bank, and he fulfills her soul, and he fulfills her body. This is soul, and this is body, and she becomes his glory.And she can only be glory for one man just 1.5.

Let's try Genesis 316 B's, where are we going to find a Genesis 316.

Genesis isn't really that hard to find.

Genesis 316.

The woman is a responder, but designed to respond to just one man.

This is why promiscuous women often become either nymphomaniacs, or just completely out of it. The woman is a responder, we've seen this, but designed to respond to one man.

Now when God was sentencing the woman for her part in the fall and you know her part in the fall, look at Genesis three six. When the woman saw that the tree was good for food and that it was pleasant to the eyes a tree to be desired to make one wise please notice, she was going to get an edification complex on her own stead she got an Olsen nature.

She took the fruit there often did eat. See Satan tried to sell her on an edification complex.

Now notice when she what it says duty that's when she died spiritually. There could be in a lapse of time we don't know whether there is or is not, but that's possible. And she gave also to her husband, man was never designed to be a responder man was designed to be the aggressor.

And yet, man became a responder in his sin.

I am for that reason God made sure that a woman would never pull out again. Not that way. So what did he do well see now we're in verse 16, I think what he did is just classic.

I'm not even expressing a personal opinion, it's this is God doing this. And he's perfect and doesn't make any mistakes. I'm sure I might get an argument from some of you ladies, but it wouldn't last long. Until a woman he said, I will greatly multiply by sorrow, you're going to have trouble girls. And you're also going to have kids and I conception and bring them together in sorrow thou shall bring forth children. Now here's the part and die desire, Shelby to your man. And that word for desire there is insatiability, and he one man singular shall rule over you one woman singular right man right woman. He shall rule over you.

The man was wrong.

He took it from the woman he accepted the fruit from her. He responded to the woman. And God said that will never happen again I want you to notice something everywhere you turn in the Scripture.

There's no such thing as a woman preacher. It's always a man, wherever you find authority authority is always vested in the male. If it's marriage, the husband. If it's family it's the parents that can be mother and father. But wherever you turn, whether it's just one authority that one authority is always the man.

Now exception, Deborah.

Why, because the judge was a weak sister.

And so, Deborah took the man's part, but you know something, a woman has never taken a man's part, without losing more than she could ever gain.

And no woman can ever be a real woman, and take a man's heart.

She loses every time. Alright, let's take a look at this verse 16 be just this month. Die desire insatiability. Choose your husband. Seeing sometimes she'll hate him sometimes she'll love you but she'll always respect it. He shall rule over you.

You notice what he does to Adam he says Now listen boy you listen to the voice of your wife, you should have been talking and you were listening. That's always a mistake, never listen to a woman always talk to her say that's what God is saying here.

Oh, let's look at again some of you missed it, I can see that right now ladies get your eyebrows down out of your head, and under Adam he said because you have listened to the voice of your wife, and have eaten of the tree of which I commanded the saying Thou shalt not eat of it. I'm going to curse the ground, the grounds had it. From now on, you're gonna have to farm in sorrow, shout out, eat of it literally and toil hard work, all the days of your life in ninth verse 19, you have to go to work and the sweat of your face the sweat of your brow.

All right, point five. The woman is a responder.

But designed to respond to one man, one man, one man, point, and six.

Proverbs. Well, I'm going to quote this date because we've had it before in other studies.

When the woman seeks to respond to the wrong man, first of all, she destroys her soul proverbs 632. Now it's stated from the standpoint of the man and proverbs 632, but the principle is vice versa.

For this reason, adultery is forbidden in First Corinthians 616 through 18 because in adultery, the wrong woman gets the wrong man they are wrong for each other, and something is destroyed in her responses. So lately scar tissue physically sex becomes a terrible thing, or it isn't what it should be for one reason or another. So, point, six by the woman seeks to respond to the wrong man she destroys her soul proverbs 630 to say, vice versa is true. When the man says seeks the wrong woman. He destroys his this is scar tissue. Now that all said also has an effect upon the body. First Corinthians 616 through 18, we've studied these before. Poinsettmonogamy is ordained of God, to demonstrate that God has a right man and a right Roman for each other.

Monogamy is ordained of God.

Somebody just said, how do you spell monogamous

Now let's look this up first Corinthians seven two through four.

First Corinthians seven two monogamy has ordained of God to demonstrate that God has a right man for a right Roman, and vice versa. First Corinthians seven two through four.

Nevertheless, to avoid fornication Let every man have his own. The word own is idiotic which means his own that belongs to him, his own peculiar his own private life. And let every woman have her own again hideous husband, not idiot husband idiotic husband.

Now the word the use of vinyasa there means there's just one for one.

By the way, the word wife here is always woman and the word husband here is always man and a woman does not have power over our own body.

By the way, girls, this indicates that Auto egotism is wrong.

But the husband, the man. A man can bring out the physical responses of a woman.

And likewise, also, the man does not have power over his body. And again, that handles a problem of auto elitism. But the woman. In other words, homosexuality lesbianism masturbation. These are not any answer of any kind.

You read that loud and clear. Or shall I go into a point my point.

Right women is designed for a man and a man is designed for a woman but not any man in any woman. All right man and the right woman.

And you know something, it's been true since before man sin, nothing will ever replace it. Nothing.

You can drink every bottle in town. You don't ever replace it. You can sublimate in any way as humanly possible the sub will make you never replace it. There's just one right man for one right woman, and when the two get together, it is the greatest thing in the world, and it's irreplaceable.

Alright, let's try point eight.

Hey, we're making great progress. They only have to go to 12. That is point 12, not 12 minutes.

I point eight. Even in the empty life of an unbeliever repeat. Even in the empty life of an unbeliever now not all unbelievers necessarily have empty lives but we do in this case.

Even in the empty life of an unbeliever or in the life of the lever with scar tissue. When the right man marries the right woman. He derives great happiness from her. Even though his life is vanity now you don't understand this yet because I haven't taken it to the verse. I just want you to get this point. Even in the empty life of an unbeliever here's an unbeliever or a believer with scar tissue. When the right man marries the right woman he derives great happiness from her. Even though his life is vanity. Now here's the verse, but don't look it up yet. Ecclesiastes he's nine nine.

Repeat.

Even in the empty life of the unbeliever or the believer with scar tissue. When a right man marries a right woman. He derives great happiness from her, even though his life, his vanity. Ecclesiastes he's nine nine. Now let's look it up.

You know we've been studying it quite well last Tuesday night we say the Ecclesiastes is Do you remember, if you have scar tissue on the soul everything you touch turns to misery. But here's an exception to that. You can have a believer with scar tissue on the soul, or an unbeliever with an otherwise empty life could find the right woman, or the right woman the right man, and still have happiness from that relationship.

Quite a fascinating passage, please yes these nine nine. Those of you who are who were here Tuesday night of course have already found ecclesiastics. And by the way, if you have the Apocrypha. It isn't ecclesiasticus. We're in Ecclesiastes T's.

Please, he asked he's nine nine.

Live joyfully. That means live happily with the wife, whom thou lovest. All the days, I get this here's the kicker. All the days of the life of your emptiness. Here's a person who has an empty life for one or two reasons. He's an unbeliever, or he's a believer with scar tissue. And even though he is an unbeliever or a believer with scar tissue. If he gets the right Roman, this is literally live joyfully with a woman whom you love all the days of the life of your emptiness, which he have given you under the sun, all the days of your emptiness or vanity. For that is the portion your portion in this life, if you find the right one. This is your portion, and in your labor which you take out to the sun which is not pertinent the last phrase has to do with his work. Now this is a rather startling statement. There are very few statements like this, where any happiness outside of the plan of God and the grace of God can actually exist. But there is one exception. There is happiness. If you find the right woman, or the right man. Now, why is this so important? It emphasizes a principle Look, if an unbeliever with an empty life can be happy with the right woman. Just think right you can be as a lever, with a notification complex and the right woman, or identification complex and the right man. There's no end to it. It's just fantastic point nine, by the way, the other side of this.

This verse also indicates that when you marry the wrong man or the wrong woman you have a lifetime of suffering and misery, even with an edification complex but I won't go into that tonight comes up on Tuesday nights.

All right, boy nine recognition of the right man, or the right woman becomes vitally important. And I say, I suggest that I have understated the subject recognition of the right man or the right woman becomes vitally important. And I know that I am going to be answering as from this day forward, watch who comes up tonight. They're going to ask me, how you can tell when it's the right woman. How can you tell when it's the right man? I expect to hear that question a few thousand times in the next few months. How do you know, how do you know, that's the first thing everyone wants to know how well there are many signals.

The simplest thing is to build a notification complex which also has a built in radar set that gives you the blips on the screen. When the right one comes along, that's the easiest. In other words, don't worry about it at all, just work on the notification complex? I never saw a person with a notification clown, I actually didn't have enough sense to know when the right one came along, but I can't assume that all of you have a notification complex fact I'm not sure about anyone but me and D and I'm not even sure about the. So there has to be another way because remember, I'm believers can find the right man or the right woman, how do they do it.

Well, I'm here to suggest a phrase that may help you may not.

They turn you on.

First Corinthians chapter seven verse nine, this is not ordinary living Oh, that's just normal, healthy body. I'm talking about something else First Corinthians chapter seven. Verse nine. Now the Old English is slightly different but it'll tell you about the same as I have. Recognition signals include the one found in First Corinthians seven nine. I'm almost afraid to give this for one reason. Some people in the midst of a wave of labor don't walk by and see a mouthful of teeth and a big smile and align and they assume this is that, and it isn't. They just caught the wave of livid oh and impressed by certain types of personality. That doesn't mean a thing. But there is something beyond live at all.

And here it is, say you got back there in a hurry.

Your, your hurry to go home or just want to see what this is the sum you want to find how you're going to recognize all right here it is. But if they cannot contain maintain control. Let them marry so far that's not the point. Here's the point. For it is better to marry, than to burn. Now burningis greater than labor they'll get that down.

Burning is not ordinary lives at all. Burning for the woman means to trigger insatiability to the point of a total desire and a total surrender that even excludes her natural pride. With a man. The right man's aggressiveness and passion, are satisfactory to her soul. And then later on to her body, so much so that it's almost unbelievable. Though woman, who experiences, this for the first time in evitable II cries, it's just too much. And sometimes the male too. Alright, again, quite nice. There are many ways to recognize the right man or the right woman, the recognition signals include the one found in First Corinthians seven nine described under the word burning. It is not ordinary livedo burning means to trigger the woman's insatiability to the point of total desire and total to surrender to the right man. This is a surrender in the soul. And then the body.

There's an elapsed there.

On the other hand, the right man's aggressiveness and passion, will be signals to him, and this will satisfy both her soul, and her body. He will have noble and pure thoughts about her and he will have deep and strong licentious thoughts about her, all together. One soul one's body.

Let's try point 10.

The principle of right man right woman is behind the command of First Corinthians 710 and 11. First Corinthians 710 and 11. Here's the principle of right man right woman. Now listen to this under the married I command yet not I but the Lord. The Lord commands this lamp not the life depart from her husband. Now, here's right man right woman and this passage.

And you say, well hi if you ever find if I ever find the right man but I want to leave him. You must be kidding. You'll want to leave him. You will love him you won't hate him. You will want Him you will despise him, you'll want to make him happy. And you'll want him to hurt. You'll want to make him squirm, you'll want to see him suffer. And you'll want to see him and gloriously happy. And these will come at different times, we hope not too close together. That's a sign of instability.

Now, if you do the part right Roman. What are you going to do well this is how we know right man right woman is in this passage. But as she depart. Let her remain unmarried there's no one else for her or me reconcile to her husband, and let not the husband, put away his wife, if it's right man and right woman. Might as well face it. And when you do have a TIFF.

Don't divorce.

Just gonna like silly tripping up and getting married again some future tonight. I'll never be anyone else you may have to go out and shop around to find out and see how wrong you are. But if you marry someone else in between you never can go back together. And I suspect I know of several cases where apparently it was right man or right woman, they got married in their teams, which is a ghastly mistake and getting married so young. They didn't even have sense or not they lucked out, but they didn't know it they were too young, no capacity. So they broke out divorced. And then they went in different directions. And the girl got married. And then she realized. The first one was the right one. And she was correct but. Deuteronomy says they can never go back together again. She has short circuited him. And it's all over. And the word of God never permits a remarriage, where one of the parties involved has been married in between reconciliation must take place before such a tragedy occurs. Now the point I want to make about this passage is, there is a right man for a right woman and when this occurs, look, even if she leaves him. She may stay away a long time or a short time. But don't go out marry someone else be reconciled.

Point 11, getting down to the wire.When the believer marries the right woman.

He has received grace from the Lord,

Why not be lever, be sure to pull the lever and the lever marries the right woman. He has received grace from the Lord, turn now to Proverbs, 1822. Proverbs, 1822. I want to tell you something about this verse I had a great prejudice about it.

I've seen clocks marry the wrong people be all emotional for about five minutes, stand up and give their glowing testimony. I've heard idiots male idiots stand up and say, who still find it the we find it the good thing and I found a good thing. Praise God. Now I heard that a couple times when I was a new believer. And it made me sick. It nauseated me. I was years before, when I was reading through poverty, years before I didn't even look at this verse.

Because of the way, idiots distorted simpering stupid idiots.

Now there is a right person.

But I've seen too many people get the wrong person. I've seen teenagers get the wrong person, and all stand up and give their glowing testimony, and everyone looks at the young couple back from their honeymoon. And she's blushing a little, and he's blowing, and it's sickening. Everyone laughs and it rarely does, and I've seen too many cases where it didn't. So just because you're back from the honeymoon don't stand up and give your testimony. Keep your mouth shut for a year, and then quote a correction. Now let's get the correction here. Proverbs 1822 starts out it whosoever is really there? Whosoever find us a good wife hey that's deferred.

Whosoever find that the good wife doesn't find a good thing it says literally whosoever finds a good wife I better put that in the board for your son we're in shock and take a little while for it to get it down. Whosoever finds a good wife and you know what a good wife is right woman. So let's put it in here our host whoever finds a good wife right woman, and then you notice it says obtain a favor of the Lord but the Hebrew says receives grace from the Lord.

Whosoever finds the right moment a good wife receives grace from the Lord.

And the point when the deliver marries the right woman he receives grace from the Lord. This is one of our more difficult points. That's why I saved it the last point 12 last point, the right woman is always from the Lord proverbs 1913 and 14.

Proverbs 1913 and 14. Let's get down the point First, the right woman is always from the Lord,

Isha math, calm.

Right looks like that that's the phrase we're gonna deal with,

I won't tell you what it is. Yeah, just put it up there.

He shot my collar, that's what we're going to study, but let's get a good start verse 14. Robert, verse 13 proverbs 1913 look at it, I'll fully son is a disaster to his father. And the contentions of a wife, which is literally the nagging things of a wife, or like a Chinese torture a continual dropping houses and rituals are the inheritance of fathers. Now look, if you get a fully son, beyond your help offered. These are things that you could get without, you know really having too much to do with it just having a child and so on and turns out to be the wrong kind, and it's possible to stumble into the wrong wife and you're going to get nagging for the rest of your life continual dropping houses glitches you can inherit those. But let me tell you something. When you find our prudent life you do it all by yourself. With help from God because we've seen the grace principle, but inevitably, you have to make the decision. Now let's take a look at this. The last part of verse 14. Our prudent wife is from the Lord. He leads her up there but you have to know it and you have to wait for it, and you have to be prepared for it. And please notice she's called here a prudent wife, Isha mass Kala. He shot me mass collapse. What does it mean, you saw you already know that that's woman here it is, is HaeSha mass, this is m ASKA l e th mass calorie.

And you know what mass gallop is, it's the hip feel active participle. Sock cow. Looks like this. Sock l s, aka and sock cow means to be wise and the hip field stem means cause to be wise, and there's gap. When you get the right woman, see this has to be available why, When you get the right woman, and its mascot, you know what it is.

It's from the Lord because she first established erected and built an identification complex. Then the Lord led her to you. And you've had a great blessing from the Lord. Not only does the Lord, lead her to you as it were from the Lord, but he brings, not only the right woman from the standpoint of her soul and find her body. But what makes this the last point of the perfect one. She is spiritually prepared she has an edification complex, and if you have to wait on unwritten years she's worth waiting for.

From the Lord.

And there's no doubt about one thing, you'll be at a, you get a woman with an edification complex and get the right woman, all at the same time is pitiful Aaron says prudent wife. I really like the word prudent, but it's an old English word for wisdom, and it's a hit field participle. Having been caused to be wise by the daily, inhale of Bible doctrine through gap and the erection of an edification complex or woman without edification complex is the most valuable creature in the world. If she's yours. Thank you Father for the privilege of studying these things make all the Holy Spirit open our hearts to them. When we ask it in Christ's name. Amen.

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